I prefer calling girls especially for the first date because I feel like it’s more personal but sadly in this culture of people being flakey, hiding behind screens and never answering their phones, I usually text them because I feel like it’s the safer choice.
Going to agree with Bill here. Even if she is awesome overall, nobody’s perfect so there’s always something that can be improved. Although, she says she keeps friendzoning herself. That leads me to believe that people probably like her in a friendly context but not in a romantic context. Maybe she needs to be more flirty or more forward about when she’s interested in a guy. Possibly tone down the sarcasm when it’s fitting. There’s really not enough information to go off of but from what’s there, it sounds like she needs to present herself as appealing in a romantic context instead of just a friendly context.
Disagree. The secret is that it’s got to be a short enough nap that you don’t fall into deep sleep and end up feeling even more tired. Somewhere in the neighborhood of 20-30 minutes is perfect.
Just moved from Indiana back to Chicago. I realized Indiana didn’t have the amount of young people, single girls, nightlife & job oppurtunities I wanted so I got a job, signed a lease and made the leap. I’ve only been here for a few days so far but things are looking up.
I think the right time to delete the apps is once you have the DTR talk and decide to be exclusive. There can be an argument made to just delete them now but until you have the talk, you don’t really know how she feels either.
I don’t think you should message too long at all before meeting up. I’m also not a fan of when you already have a date set and the girl wants to message you regularly until the date. I’m going on the date to get to know you so there’s no point in putting everything out on the table, before then.
I think it’s good that you realized this and decided to take matters into your own hands. If you didn’t, it would lead to a much more drastic realization down the road. My moment came when I was too depressed to go to work at a job I hate so I called in sick, did some research and started my own company. I got fired from the job I hated later but it actually felt freeing and I’m a lot happier than I was back, then.
For the person who wants jeans that are not too baggy and not too tight around the ankles, I’d recommend a “slim boot” cut jean like a Levis 517 or 527. They are slim but not tight around the upper leg and have a wider opening around ankle to accomodate boots. If you want a fit that’s slimmer at the bottom, you may want a “slim straight” cut like the Levis 513.
Went to one yesterday. I would also recommend having Cards Against Humanity or some other game that’s fun for a casual get together. That way people can play it after eating to distract them from the food coma hitting. If you’re having a big friendsgiving party where you don’t know everyone well, make sure to also have something for vegetarians to eat.
$40 for two cocktails? Fuck outta here to that dude. Also, the girl seems cool. Being honest but polite is the best way to turn someone down.
Also, to the guy who wants to go for the girl at the gym, hitting on only one girl at the gym doesn’t make you “that guy.”
Best place to find girls with long term potential at a college campus is the dining halls. Not everybody goes out to bars but everyone eats. The fact that there’s a wide variety of girls to choose from, the girl having her guard down from this being a calm setting and the fact that lots of people who eat alone might want someone to talk to are all things that you can use to your advantage. Another thing I recommend is that after you ask her out and she says yes, say something like “it’s a date” so there’s no ambiguity of what kind of interaction it is.
The fact that you want to watch football, drink wine and spend alone time with your boyfriend instead of trying to one-up others on social media might actually make you the best Fall girlfriend.
I’m pretty sure the reason that one of my relatives says I’m living in the past when I mention anything even remotely related to my college is because I went to a big state school and he doesn’t understand that type of school pride since he was a commuter student at a satellite campus that nobody outside of the state has ever heard of.
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I prefer calling girls especially for the first date because I feel like it’s more personal but sadly in this culture of people being flakey, hiding behind screens and never answering their phones, I usually text them because I feel like it’s the safer choice.
If you’re talking about the hangover with the people who were out with you last night, I think it’s fair game as a conversation topic.
Going to agree with Bill here. Even if she is awesome overall, nobody’s perfect so there’s always something that can be improved. Although, she says she keeps friendzoning herself. That leads me to believe that people probably like her in a friendly context but not in a romantic context. Maybe she needs to be more flirty or more forward about when she’s interested in a guy. Possibly tone down the sarcasm when it’s fitting. There’s really not enough information to go off of but from what’s there, it sounds like she needs to present herself as appealing in a romantic context instead of just a friendly context.
Disagree. The secret is that it’s got to be a short enough nap that you don’t fall into deep sleep and end up feeling even more tired. Somewhere in the neighborhood of 20-30 minutes is perfect.
Just moved from Indiana back to Chicago. I realized Indiana didn’t have the amount of young people, single girls, nightlife & job oppurtunities I wanted so I got a job, signed a lease and made the leap. I’ve only been here for a few days so far but things are looking up.
I think the right time to delete the apps is once you have the DTR talk and decide to be exclusive. There can be an argument made to just delete them now but until you have the talk, you don’t really know how she feels either.
I’m a guy and I’ll eat in bed but only small things that aren’t going to make a mess, though. I’ve never had breakfast in bed.
I don’t think you should message too long at all before meeting up. I’m also not a fan of when you already have a date set and the girl wants to message you regularly until the date. I’m going on the date to get to know you so there’s no point in putting everything out on the table, before then.
I’m 26 and plan on keeping this lifestyle going for a couple more years. Sup?
I think it’s good that you realized this and decided to take matters into your own hands. If you didn’t, it would lead to a much more drastic realization down the road. My moment came when I was too depressed to go to work at a job I hate so I called in sick, did some research and started my own company. I got fired from the job I hated later but it actually felt freeing and I’m a lot happier than I was back, then.
For the person who wants jeans that are not too baggy and not too tight around the ankles, I’d recommend a “slim boot” cut jean like a Levis 517 or 527. They are slim but not tight around the upper leg and have a wider opening around ankle to accomodate boots. If you want a fit that’s slimmer at the bottom, you may want a “slim straight” cut like the Levis 513.
Went to one yesterday. I would also recommend having Cards Against Humanity or some other game that’s fun for a casual get together. That way people can play it after eating to distract them from the food coma hitting. If you’re having a big friendsgiving party where you don’t know everyone well, make sure to also have something for vegetarians to eat.
I used to be eco-friendly but ever since, I started driving a convertible, I’m all for global warming.
$40 for two cocktails? Fuck outta here to that dude. Also, the girl seems cool. Being honest but polite is the best way to turn someone down.
Also, to the guy who wants to go for the girl at the gym, hitting on only one girl at the gym doesn’t make you “that guy.”
Going solo is way better than having a wingman who sucks.
Best place to find girls with long term potential at a college campus is the dining halls. Not everybody goes out to bars but everyone eats. The fact that there’s a wide variety of girls to choose from, the girl having her guard down from this being a calm setting and the fact that lots of people who eat alone might want someone to talk to are all things that you can use to your advantage. Another thing I recommend is that after you ask her out and she says yes, say something like “it’s a date” so there’s no ambiguity of what kind of interaction it is.
I just tried to think of how the last girl who I went on a date with me and then, ghosted me would answer this. It didn’t look good.
The fact that you want to watch football, drink wine and spend alone time with your boyfriend instead of trying to one-up others on social media might actually make you the best Fall girlfriend.
I’m pretty sure the reason that one of my relatives says I’m living in the past when I mention anything even remotely related to my college is because I went to a big state school and he doesn’t understand that type of school pride since he was a commuter student at a satellite campus that nobody outside of the state has ever heard of.
You would be a lot better at networking events if you actually networked instead of being a wallflower.