Loss guy: find a therapist that does EMDR. I mentioned this on another article, but EMDR is amazing for treating psychological trauma, PTSD and other issues.
And PTSD isn’t exclusive to having a roadside bomb blow up in front of you in Iraq; you can get it from a sudden loss of a loved one.
“However, if anyone out there from Nelnet is reading this and wants to start deleting some computer files to help out the rest of us, I know of an entire generation that would thank you.”
Giving up on your debt repayment quest already, Steph? I’m sure that this is joking and written in jest, but something like this is spitting in the face of all of us who actually paid back our debts. I know you haven’t had a personal finance class, but believe it or not, debt isn’t free money. That $100K+ that you got was paid for by someone else. So that person (or in this case, the taxpayers) losing the ability to get that money back is a financial disaster.
All these bullshit debt forgiveness loopholes I see (both from you, from journalists and even from our government) are a load of horseshit. You knowingly borrowed that money, now pay it back!
I feel like it works either way in this case. Either way, whatever 18 year old(s) had fun with [redacted] this weekend, he/they must be feeling like a million dollars right now.
Instead of worrying how to make next month’s rent, his biggest worry is how to prevent his parents from finding out. Must be nice to have constant monthly deposits from Bank of Mom and Dad.
Goddamit, I thought this was America! If we want to fuck over our hormones and possibly hasten our deaths by eating overly processed but delicious food, we should be able to do so!
But being a “bigger” girl is subjective. She could’ve been chubby and not super skinny and her boyfriend may have liked that and then she could’ve gained 50 pounds after. It’s really hard to tell from descriptions what exactly the situation is.
While I agree with your thoughts, assuming that point #1 is true, what if it isn’t? That is, what if she was healthy, albeit bigger, at the beginning of the relationship, but has gained more weight as she has become comfortable in a relationship?
If that’s the true story, then (and bring on the downvotes!) I don’t think it’s unfair for her boyfriend to want her to lose the weight. Getting comfortable and gaining weight in a relationship happens for a lot of people, but if you really let yourself go, then it’s not unreasonable to have your partner bring that up, especially as a guy. Like it or not, we’re creatures that are first and foremost attracted physically. If that part is missing, then other stuff starts to go wrong.
Also, letting yourself go is a sign about how you feel about yourself and the relationship. It’s a sign sent to your partner that you’re TOO comfortable and have stopped trying, which never works because both people need to always try in a relationship.
I hear ya, but you gotta bite the bullet. Buy a few suits and wear em 1-2x a week, dry cleaning them once a month for $50 total. It sucks but that’s basically a couple of drinks so that you don’t smell like sweat.
You can usually get cheap suits at Jos. A Bank or Men’s Wearhouse.
I always buy Blu-rays (and 4K Blu-rays now that I have a 4K TV). The video quality is much better and you generally can’t get lossless/object-based audio via streaming.
23 and Me DNA test
TP Link Smart Plug
Get Out Blu-ray (this sold out in literally 15 seconds so I’m shocked I was able to get it)
And last, but not least, because this is PGP: 12 pack of Dial hand soap.
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I don’t think you understand how borrowing money works so I’ll end the conversation here.
Loss guy: find a therapist that does EMDR. I mentioned this on another article, but EMDR is amazing for treating psychological trauma, PTSD and other issues.
And PTSD isn’t exclusive to having a roadside bomb blow up in front of you in Iraq; you can get it from a sudden loss of a loved one.
Bailouts are difficult and tricky situations and I don’t support them a lot of the time.
But with that said, car manufacturers add a lot more utility to society than a bunch of liberal arts graduates.
“However, if anyone out there from Nelnet is reading this and wants to start deleting some computer files to help out the rest of us, I know of an entire generation that would thank you.”
Giving up on your debt repayment quest already, Steph? I’m sure that this is joking and written in jest, but something like this is spitting in the face of all of us who actually paid back our debts. I know you haven’t had a personal finance class, but believe it or not, debt isn’t free money. That $100K+ that you got was paid for by someone else. So that person (or in this case, the taxpayers) losing the ability to get that money back is a financial disaster.
All these bullshit debt forgiveness loopholes I see (both from you, from journalists and even from our government) are a load of horseshit. You knowingly borrowed that money, now pay it back!
Sorry man, the fruit was low hanging and right there for the picking; I couldn’t resist.
“Think about it. That girl you invited back to your place last night who isn’t thrilled about waking up with no air conditioning? Mimosas outside”
Better hope that girl isn’t arachnophobic.
For some reason, this made me think of The Silence of the Lambs
I feel like it works either way in this case. Either way, whatever 18 year old(s) had fun with [redacted] this weekend, he/they must be feeling like a million dollars right now.
On behalf of all 18-year old boys, [redacted] isn’t the hero we want, but the hero we deserve.
Instead of worrying how to make next month’s rent, his biggest worry is how to prevent his parents from finding out. Must be nice to have constant monthly deposits from Bank of Mom and Dad.
Goddamit, I thought this was America! If we want to fuck over our hormones and possibly hasten our deaths by eating overly processed but delicious food, we should be able to do so!
But being a “bigger” girl is subjective. She could’ve been chubby and not super skinny and her boyfriend may have liked that and then she could’ve gained 50 pounds after. It’s really hard to tell from descriptions what exactly the situation is.
While I agree with your thoughts, assuming that point #1 is true, what if it isn’t? That is, what if she was healthy, albeit bigger, at the beginning of the relationship, but has gained more weight as she has become comfortable in a relationship?
If that’s the true story, then (and bring on the downvotes!) I don’t think it’s unfair for her boyfriend to want her to lose the weight. Getting comfortable and gaining weight in a relationship happens for a lot of people, but if you really let yourself go, then it’s not unreasonable to have your partner bring that up, especially as a guy. Like it or not, we’re creatures that are first and foremost attracted physically. If that part is missing, then other stuff starts to go wrong.
Also, letting yourself go is a sign about how you feel about yourself and the relationship. It’s a sign sent to your partner that you’re TOO comfortable and have stopped trying, which never works because both people need to always try in a relationship.
Congrats on becoming Eskimo sisters with your ex’s new wife.
I hear ya, but you gotta bite the bullet. Buy a few suits and wear em 1-2x a week, dry cleaning them once a month for $50 total. It sucks but that’s basically a couple of drinks so that you don’t smell like sweat.
You can usually get cheap suits at Jos. A Bank or Men’s Wearhouse.
That’s okay, I think someone peed in his coffee again.
Jesus Christ, dude. Clean your damn clothes.
I always buy Blu-rays (and 4K Blu-rays now that I have a 4K TV). The video quality is much better and you generally can’t get lossless/object-based audio via streaming.
I’ve learned through experience. Most people on here don’t want yet ANOTHER site that talks politics.
I got:
23 and Me DNA test
TP Link Smart Plug
Get Out Blu-ray (this sold out in literally 15 seconds so I’m shocked I was able to get it)
And last, but not least, because this is PGP: 12 pack of Dial hand soap.