Seeing Chris Stapleton tomorrow. Low in ATL is 43 degrees. Can’t wait to see how many chicks show up in crop tops trying to be cute and freeze their asses off.
Sometimes you have to/should say no. If I had a bridesmaid who was going through this, I would totally get it if she declined. It’s a HUGE commitment on their part, too.
As a side note, if you plan your wedding in the fall on a Saturday please know that I will have my phone out for 75% of that wedding. If you get offended by that, you probably shouldn’t have planned your wedding on a Saturday in the South… on rivalry weekend…
Started off in a pissy mood this morning because it’s a long week after a week long vacay. Then I thought about those Thai kids stuck in a cave and thought to myself, “could be worse!”
My mom always told me you cannot negotiate the idea of having or not having kids with a partner. If your significant other feels strongly about it and you feel the opposite, hate to say that shit probably won’t work out. That’s just something I have a hard time seeing as being negotiable.
As far as bickering, that’s normal for a 3 year relationship. Especially if y’all live together. But yeah… can’t really overlook the kid issue.
Here to avoid all puppy comments and say to the dude debating moving in with your girlfriend, DO IT. Best decision I made in my relationship because it 100% solidified we wanted to get married. We talked about boundaries, bills, splitting groceries, etc. beforehand. We’re both very independent people and honestly, I enjoy when he leaves the house sometimes so I can be alone. It is definitely worth it if you think this girl is “the one.” Congrats on the “let’s move in together” sex!
As someone whose “F” word is planning a Vegas bachelor party, I am comforted by this. If he gets a lap dance, I’ll be like eh whatever. But I trust him not to go full hooker mode.
I knew my previous relationship was toast when I would rather do things by myself when he was around. Grocery store runs were annoying, not fun. Watching TV I didn’t even really feel like cuddling. At the end of the day I knew what I had to do. It sucked, but I think we’re both a whole hell of a lot better off.
Only here to piggy back off the guy losing the spark advice. I have been with my current SO (not using F word since apparently that’s a trigger) for 3 years and I will admit sometimes the lust and general excitement isn’t CONSTANT but I was with two people before him and dated a lot in college. And I can say with 100% certainty I am with the person I should be.
You need to know what you’re looking for and being that young and already feeling “meh” is a sign. I dumped my ex of 3 years because I had just graduated and generally was “meh” about it. Don’t get sucked in. You owe it to her to break up if you aren’t into it anymore.
For the love of all that is holy PLEASE stop hash-tagging “doodlesofinstagram,” “doodlelove,” “doodlesdoitbest.” Why the fuck is it always Doodle owners that hashtag? Enough already.
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Seeing Chris Stapleton tomorrow. Low in ATL is 43 degrees. Can’t wait to see how many chicks show up in crop tops trying to be cute and freeze their asses off.
Sometimes you have to/should say no. If I had a bridesmaid who was going through this, I would totally get it if she declined. It’s a HUGE commitment on their part, too.
As a side note, if you plan your wedding in the fall on a Saturday please know that I will have my phone out for 75% of that wedding. If you get offended by that, you probably shouldn’t have planned your wedding on a Saturday in the South… on rivalry weekend…
Started off in a pissy mood this morning because it’s a long week after a week long vacay. Then I thought about those Thai kids stuck in a cave and thought to myself, “could be worse!”
But seriously T&P’s to them and the rescue crews.
Slow clap for your response on the dude worried about this girl’s weight.
I go back and forth.. granted I’m not finished yet so I’m not sold one way or the other. I do tend to lean toward guilty right now though.
Your thoughts?
Anyone else addicted to The Staircase?
“Jan Levinson, I presume?”
My mom always told me you cannot negotiate the idea of having or not having kids with a partner. If your significant other feels strongly about it and you feel the opposite, hate to say that shit probably won’t work out. That’s just something I have a hard time seeing as being negotiable.
As far as bickering, that’s normal for a 3 year relationship. Especially if y’all live together. But yeah… can’t really overlook the kid issue.
This scene fucking wrecked me.
Here to avoid all puppy comments and say to the dude debating moving in with your girlfriend, DO IT. Best decision I made in my relationship because it 100% solidified we wanted to get married. We talked about boundaries, bills, splitting groceries, etc. beforehand. We’re both very independent people and honestly, I enjoy when he leaves the house sometimes so I can be alone. It is definitely worth it if you think this girl is “the one.” Congrats on the “let’s move in together” sex!
This is all too much for my Monday morning brain to process.
As someone whose “F” word is planning a Vegas bachelor party, I am comforted by this. If he gets a lap dance, I’ll be like eh whatever. But I trust him not to go full hooker mode.
I knew my previous relationship was toast when I would rather do things by myself when he was around. Grocery store runs were annoying, not fun. Watching TV I didn’t even really feel like cuddling. At the end of the day I knew what I had to do. It sucked, but I think we’re both a whole hell of a lot better off.
Also, I realized how shitty my math was… I dumped my ex 5 years ago… it’s been a day.
Only here to piggy back off the guy losing the spark advice. I have been with my current SO (not using F word since apparently that’s a trigger) for 3 years and I will admit sometimes the lust and general excitement isn’t CONSTANT but I was with two people before him and dated a lot in college. And I can say with 100% certainty I am with the person I should be.
You need to know what you’re looking for and being that young and already feeling “meh” is a sign. I dumped my ex of 3 years because I had just graduated and generally was “meh” about it. Don’t get sucked in. You owe it to her to break up if you aren’t into it anymore.
Dated a guy who was OBSESSED with Corgis… can confirm.
That being said, I still love dogs and I will like the picture.
For the love of all that is holy PLEASE stop hash-tagging “doodlesofinstagram,” “doodlelove,” “doodlesdoitbest.” Why the fuck is it always Doodle owners that hashtag? Enough already.
I’m still happy when I push over that 11th like, TBH.