This is nice and it makes me smile. I think we all work so hard to find someone in our comfort zone and it’s hard to realize that it’s not what we really need.
I agree with you. I can’t imagine working from home. I need some social interaction. Even if my coworkers annoy the shit out of me sometimes. I also have zero personal accountability and wouldn’t get anything done.
This breaks my heart. As the “don’t fuck this up” commenter I meant that in jest. As someone who has been in really dramatic relationships it was an adjustment for me to realize that it’s not all about excitement… it’s about someone that makes you feel warm and safe and totally accepts you for you. I think her dropping the L bomb threw you off which is fair. And you shouldn’t say it unless you mean it. Doesn’t mean she won’t get mad but you were in the right there. I just think you didn’t know what to do so you just panicked and ran away. Clearly this girl really does love you so I hope you do write her a letter and find a way to fix this. Which you CAN do. Just only fix it if you’re sure you’re ready because if you do this to her again she will never forgive you and you will cause so much more damage. My heart goes out to you… good luck.
Read receipts just feel like a lot of work. Plus I often read texts and forget to respond so I think read receipts would just reveal how much of an asshole I really am rather than let me seem busy.
I’ve been toying back and forth with the thought of going on a second date with this guy I recently went out with who checks every single box except the chemistry box. He’s not unattractive and he totally went for it, but the kissing was a little aggressive and I just had no desire to rip off his clothes and stay late. I ended up leaving early saying he was tired and have been kind of distant since because I just feel like an asshole. Sometimes I want to schedule another date with him and see how it goes and other times I don’t. I guess I just worry that maybe he is really great and I’ll miss out on that because I’m being too picky?
I firmly believe that every friend-zonee is also a friend-zoner. They just don’t notice because they’re too busy obsessing over their fantasy that they don’t realize there is someone else obsessing over them. It’s all a shitty cycle.
It depends, some families are closer than others. I’d love to be home for Christmas but I have to work. I also know people who dread the holidays because their families just can’t seem to behave when they’re all together. I’d just try to do what makes you happy.
I often forget to list this with my litany of dating problems but finding a guy who appears to have his life together and also doesn’t do cocaine is way more difficult than I anticipated.
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This is nice and it makes me smile. I think we all work so hard to find someone in our comfort zone and it’s hard to realize that it’s not what we really need.
I agree with you. I can’t imagine working from home. I need some social interaction. Even if my coworkers annoy the shit out of me sometimes. I also have zero personal accountability and wouldn’t get anything done.
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Awww have fun! You’ll do great. Wear whatever you feel most confident in. Can’t wait to hear about it!
This breaks my heart. As the “don’t fuck this up” commenter I meant that in jest. As someone who has been in really dramatic relationships it was an adjustment for me to realize that it’s not all about excitement… it’s about someone that makes you feel warm and safe and totally accepts you for you. I think her dropping the L bomb threw you off which is fair. And you shouldn’t say it unless you mean it. Doesn’t mean she won’t get mad but you were in the right there. I just think you didn’t know what to do so you just panicked and ran away. Clearly this girl really does love you so I hope you do write her a letter and find a way to fix this. Which you CAN do. Just only fix it if you’re sure you’re ready because if you do this to her again she will never forgive you and you will cause so much more damage. My heart goes out to you… good luck.
I second this. Write her a letter.
*bangs head against wall*
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Read receipts just feel like a lot of work. Plus I often read texts and forget to respond so I think read receipts would just reveal how much of an asshole I really am rather than let me seem busy.
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alright, fair. I’ll reach out and let you know how it goes.
I’ve been toying back and forth with the thought of going on a second date with this guy I recently went out with who checks every single box except the chemistry box. He’s not unattractive and he totally went for it, but the kissing was a little aggressive and I just had no desire to rip off his clothes and stay late. I ended up leaving early saying he was tired and have been kind of distant since because I just feel like an asshole. Sometimes I want to schedule another date with him and see how it goes and other times I don’t. I guess I just worry that maybe he is really great and I’ll miss out on that because I’m being too picky?
Quickly becoming a silver fox. I think all the ladies here approve.
Had a few guys do it and it felt hella awkward.
I firmly believe that every friend-zonee is also a friend-zoner. They just don’t notice because they’re too busy obsessing over their fantasy that they don’t realize there is someone else obsessing over them. It’s all a shitty cycle.
It depends, some families are closer than others. I’d love to be home for Christmas but I have to work. I also know people who dread the holidays because their families just can’t seem to behave when they’re all together. I’d just try to do what makes you happy.
That’s a bummer I feel so adult and fancy when I whip out my card. I’ll have to look into it further. Thanks!
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So many questions… How do you know if you lounge access? Where even IS the lounge? Is my capital one venture card not good enough?
I often forget to list this with my litany of dating problems but finding a guy who appears to have his life together and also doesn’t do cocaine is way more difficult than I anticipated.