I didn’t have written proof, but submitted a claim to the Minnesota Department of Human Rights. They launched an investigation, we did interviews, and then ended up in mediation and with a settlement. I’ll agree with the above statements, its long and tedious and at times, was really painful. However, my lawyer was only paid if I got paid so once I received the settlement, he took 1/3 of it. And frankly, I didn’t go through the process to get paid. I was PISSED that this misogynistic asshole treated women the way he did and I was done with it. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.
Girl with the dick hole boss –
Not only do you need to get out of there, but it sounds like you have grounds for a hostile work environment case. I’m not an HR expert, but I am familiar because of my own situation. I would consult with an attorney.
this. I had to name all of the group texts because I once sent a “titty fuck that lasagna” message to the group text with my grandma, instead of to just my siblings and cousins. She still won’t address me.
My family is super Catholic and I wasn’t allowed to live with my boyfriend or fiance prior to marriage. I moved in the day after the wedding. We divorced three years and two kids later. It sucked. I have talked to my parents extensively about this and they both are of total agreement (now) that living with someone prior to getting married is essential.
CMV,
I think you are just on the cusp of discovering why you do this. Let me explain…
I used to use my friends’ ears and shoulders upon entering any kind of crisis. In doing so, it allowed me to just barely graze the pain I was going to feel, vent about it, let them talk me off the edge, tell me how to “fix” it, and then I would feel like I could quickly move on.
But then a real crisis hit. My world turned completely upside down and I didn’t know how to talk about it, so I didn’t. In doing this, I learned that while my friends were wonderfully amazing and helpful people, never allowing myself to overflow with feeling never gave me the opportunity to deal with some of those deep seated feelings that were always in my gut.
I learned to sit with myself through all of the suck. I had to sort out, write down, and internalize each and every feeling that needed to felt in those moments. It was, quite honestly, an incredibly life changing experience. I work so similarly to how you described now, and I think its a really healthy way to make sure your mind is able to work through all of your emotions without feeling like they need to be tabled, fixed, or gotten over. Its absolutely excellent and self aware to know that this is how you process feelings, and I don’t think there is anything wrong with it, so long as you are consistently finding that you are able to maneuver to the so-called “end” of the feeling and find resolution. Feel your feels girl, and do them in the way that works best for you.
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I’m not a dude, but can I answer? I feel like that level of crazy would be hard to hide, even while on your best dating behavior.
I didn’t have written proof, but submitted a claim to the Minnesota Department of Human Rights. They launched an investigation, we did interviews, and then ended up in mediation and with a settlement. I’ll agree with the above statements, its long and tedious and at times, was really painful. However, my lawyer was only paid if I got paid so once I received the settlement, he took 1/3 of it. And frankly, I didn’t go through the process to get paid. I was PISSED that this misogynistic asshole treated women the way he did and I was done with it. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.
Girl with the dick hole boss –
Not only do you need to get out of there, but it sounds like you have grounds for a hostile work environment case. I’m not an HR expert, but I am familiar because of my own situation. I would consult with an attorney.
this. I had to name all of the group texts because I once sent a “titty fuck that lasagna” message to the group text with my grandma, instead of to just my siblings and cousins. She still won’t address me.
My family is super Catholic and I wasn’t allowed to live with my boyfriend or fiance prior to marriage. I moved in the day after the wedding. We divorced three years and two kids later. It sucked. I have talked to my parents extensively about this and they both are of total agreement (now) that living with someone prior to getting married is essential.
I have nothing to back this up, but they are 100% real.
Came here to write the same thing. Homegirl better invest in some more pregnancy tests in a few weeks. How do adults not know how this works?
“Fuuuuck,” Eric groaned audibly. “Joel is gonna be there tonight?
came here to say this!
my girlfriend just said the same thing! rough week at the hospital me thinks.
Pressure washers are completely necessary….driveway, house, deck, patio, car, brick, fence, rock. You really wouldn’t regret owning one IMO.
Roommate Guy: “We’d like to invite you to not live with us any more” seemed to work well in Bridesmaids….
I did this once. Thinking this might be why they don’t like me any more. But I wasn’t about to have someone ruin my steak.
just ordered based on your review!
Do males really call themselves “daddy” to other men? I felt icky reading that.
CMV,
I think you are just on the cusp of discovering why you do this. Let me explain…
I used to use my friends’ ears and shoulders upon entering any kind of crisis. In doing so, it allowed me to just barely graze the pain I was going to feel, vent about it, let them talk me off the edge, tell me how to “fix” it, and then I would feel like I could quickly move on.
But then a real crisis hit. My world turned completely upside down and I didn’t know how to talk about it, so I didn’t. In doing this, I learned that while my friends were wonderfully amazing and helpful people, never allowing myself to overflow with feeling never gave me the opportunity to deal with some of those deep seated feelings that were always in my gut.
I learned to sit with myself through all of the suck. I had to sort out, write down, and internalize each and every feeling that needed to felt in those moments. It was, quite honestly, an incredibly life changing experience. I work so similarly to how you described now, and I think its a really healthy way to make sure your mind is able to work through all of your emotions without feeling like they need to be tabled, fixed, or gotten over. Its absolutely excellent and self aware to know that this is how you process feelings, and I don’t think there is anything wrong with it, so long as you are consistently finding that you are able to maneuver to the so-called “end” of the feeling and find resolution. Feel your feels girl, and do them in the way that works best for you.
you’re my favorite
WHAT HAPPENED WITH THE BUS GIRL?!?!
Grant. You’re kind of a little shit.
“Daddy is in and going low” was probs not supposed to be sexually suggestive, but that’s where I took it on this Wednesday.