Lol at trying to resurrect the very old school “my bad behavior is your fault!!” rhetoric. You realize that’s the same claim made by rapists that society at large has deemed unacceptable.
And, I mean, I don’t really think any well-adjusted woman would be considering you as a viable romantic option, so I think the whole ghosting thing is truly a non-issue for you. A man that both fears and hates women isn’t usually who we’re crying ourselves to sleep over. So…
Nothing inaccurate except the entire premise. Someone being fat and boring does not cause you to become a petty man-child. No one else is responsible for your behavior. If you can’t grow a pair and say thanks but no thanks to someone you’re not interested in, then I’m fairly certain that has very little to do with anyone but yourself.
Just want to make sure we read the same article: he agreed to this living arrangement, was disappointed by a misunderstanding about which room he would have (but presumably never communicated this), felt insulted by the fact that the female anatomy requires more toilet paper usage, and was offended that his roommates were upset that he was downloading porn illegally when it’s most likely one their names on the account? Aaaand rather than mustering up even a modicum of maturity, dude runs away with his balls tucked into his asshole with no explanation? leaving three girls who probably had no idea that he was so offended that they need to wipe their vaginas after pissing to cover his rent?
When I was single I regularly had orgasms with casuals fucks/one night stands. For starters you obviously need be mindful and selective of who you’re taking home–it should not be some dude you met on the dance floor and your main interaction has just been rubbing your ass against his boner. I brought home guys I had a connection with, that were appealing in multiple ways. If you’re having fun and genuinely like each other it’s probably because he’s a cool, decent person, which means your orgasm will be just as important as his. If he’s not of this mindset, best believe it’s your right and responsibility to let him know you’re still waiting for your O.
I also wasn’t just looking for an orgasm, I was looking for the whole experience of sex. I can have an orgasm on my own, but there’s a lot of other things I can’t, or won’t do to myself.
P.s. Did Will’s gf just dump him? Or has he been spending more time with MRAs? What’s the deal with this sudden contempt for “basic” women? It’s getting embarrassing, especially since he’s about as basic as they come.
Well I mean it’s a standard greeting in the English language so…..? many women aren’t plagued by this incessant need to show people how clever they are, which men seem to suffer from, especially when they’re tedious try-hards.
First of all, thank god. Second of all, lol at the fact that the comments are the exact type of horror that happens when basic dudes get called out. The most up voted comment is essentially “I know you are, but what am I?” with very thinly veiled women-hate.
It’s always the most insipid guys that find bottomless entertainment in making fun of basic bitches and act personally insulted by their innocuous messages on bumble, as if a woman with more nuance wouldn’t feel like her brain is going to atrophy after five minutes with any of these dudes.
Write an article attacking a group of women as self-indulgent slobs and then when said women defend themselves write some self-satisfied response where you, from your familiar, cozy corner on the internet, get to backtrack into your I’m just a chill self-deprecating funny-guy persona, “calm down ladies it was just a joke, lol, psychos”
Honestly I get that you were talking about the Kendra’s of the world that think they can just tweet about drinking wine at 11:00 a.m and that makes them a hilarious Internet persona, but the fact that it got such a negative response shouldn’t just be treated in the amateur hour way of “ugh, they just don’t get me” or “lol they’re just mad cause I’m right.” Your joke, if that’s what it was, didn’t land outside of your little niche audience, own up.
I mean your entire brand is based on being disgruntled, irresponsible, borderline alcoholic and misogynistic…. So that might have something to do with it.
1. Why are so many college educated 23 year olds in the market for marriage and families? I’m surprised by the amount of young people that are distraught over not being engaged and/or on the fast track to being 25 with a toddler and a condo.
2. I like this advice column and I think the author has a way of making people feel heard. That being said, at times it’s a little saccharine (I felt it was just three different ways of saying “live mindfully and be true to yourself”).
The kind of people that respond to “good game” and pick up lines that are overwrought are the type of people I never want to find myself on a date with.
Lol I think the problem is that you and many of your peers don’t like or respect women and you’ll forever be a drunk right swipe but not worth any real effort.
I can’t deal with the fixation with my username. This site makes you get one in order to comment. It’s a throwaway. Calm down. Also v sad lolz that women’s health care gets down voted here.
That’s what’s waiting for you in Texas, guys! Wear a suit to your soul sucking job with white guys with beer guts that love America and guns and women (when they’re not costing them tax dollars over silly things like breast exams, abortions, and cervical cancer screenings, of course!)
Austin is a great place to live if you can deal with the fact that you’re living in Texas. I personally could never live in a red state. The attack on women’s health in Texas is too real.
Uh, “us” who? As another person with ovaries and a distaste for sexist garbage, I’m telling you I’m definitely not standing up for you. I assume you’re grown, and if you covet male attention based primarily on how you look, that’s your prerogative.
First of all this isn’t an article, it’s two sentences with a bunch of screenshots from Instagram. Second of all, why don’t you get with the program? This isn’t Mad Men. The idea that you need to talk about what a babe this girl is before anything else isn’t a hilarious joke that everyone needs to get on board with, it’s a habitual act of sexism.
This ” article ” had plenty of room to be an actual article, and a clever one at that– there’s plenty of things to say about a young woman enjoying and kicking ass in a sport dominated by dudes– but alas it’s just another piece of “look at this hot girl” internet garbage.
Instead just complain about your terrible, boring job obtained by your “useful” degree. Great way to spend four years and thousands of dollars. And the rest of you life.
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Lol at trying to resurrect the very old school “my bad behavior is your fault!!” rhetoric. You realize that’s the same claim made by rapists that society at large has deemed unacceptable.
And, I mean, I don’t really think any well-adjusted woman would be considering you as a viable romantic option, so I think the whole ghosting thing is truly a non-issue for you. A man that both fears and hates women isn’t usually who we’re crying ourselves to sleep over. So…
Nothing inaccurate except the entire premise. Someone being fat and boring does not cause you to become a petty man-child. No one else is responsible for your behavior. If you can’t grow a pair and say thanks but no thanks to someone you’re not interested in, then I’m fairly certain that has very little to do with anyone but yourself.
Just want to make sure we read the same article: he agreed to this living arrangement, was disappointed by a misunderstanding about which room he would have (but presumably never communicated this), felt insulted by the fact that the female anatomy requires more toilet paper usage, and was offended that his roommates were upset that he was downloading porn illegally when it’s most likely one their names on the account? Aaaand rather than mustering up even a modicum of maturity, dude runs away with his balls tucked into his asshole with no explanation? leaving three girls who probably had no idea that he was so offended that they need to wipe their vaginas after pissing to cover his rent?
When I was single I regularly had orgasms with casuals fucks/one night stands. For starters you obviously need be mindful and selective of who you’re taking home–it should not be some dude you met on the dance floor and your main interaction has just been rubbing your ass against his boner. I brought home guys I had a connection with, that were appealing in multiple ways. If you’re having fun and genuinely like each other it’s probably because he’s a cool, decent person, which means your orgasm will be just as important as his. If he’s not of this mindset, best believe it’s your right and responsibility to let him know you’re still waiting for your O.
I also wasn’t just looking for an orgasm, I was looking for the whole experience of sex. I can have an orgasm on my own, but there’s a lot of other things I can’t, or won’t do to myself.
P.s. Did Will’s gf just dump him? Or has he been spending more time with MRAs? What’s the deal with this sudden contempt for “basic” women? It’s getting embarrassing, especially since he’s about as basic as they come.
Well I mean it’s a standard greeting in the English language so…..? many women aren’t plagued by this incessant need to show people how clever they are, which men seem to suffer from, especially when they’re tedious try-hards.
It sounds like you have no business dating women tbh.
Yeah, everything thereafter is irrelevant, just ceaseless whining.
First of all, thank god. Second of all, lol at the fact that the comments are the exact type of horror that happens when basic dudes get called out. The most up voted comment is essentially “I know you are, but what am I?” with very thinly veiled women-hate.
It’s always the most insipid guys that find bottomless entertainment in making fun of basic bitches and act personally insulted by their innocuous messages on bumble, as if a woman with more nuance wouldn’t feel like her brain is going to atrophy after five minutes with any of these dudes.
Awesome article.
Write an article attacking a group of women as self-indulgent slobs and then when said women defend themselves write some self-satisfied response where you, from your familiar, cozy corner on the internet, get to backtrack into your I’m just a chill self-deprecating funny-guy persona, “calm down ladies it was just a joke, lol, psychos”
Honestly I get that you were talking about the Kendra’s of the world that think they can just tweet about drinking wine at 11:00 a.m and that makes them a hilarious Internet persona, but the fact that it got such a negative response shouldn’t just be treated in the amateur hour way of “ugh, they just don’t get me” or “lol they’re just mad cause I’m right.” Your joke, if that’s what it was, didn’t land outside of your little niche audience, own up.
I mean your entire brand is based on being disgruntled, irresponsible, borderline alcoholic and misogynistic…. So that might have something to do with it.
1. Why are so many college educated 23 year olds in the market for marriage and families? I’m surprised by the amount of young people that are distraught over not being engaged and/or on the fast track to being 25 with a toddler and a condo.
2. I like this advice column and I think the author has a way of making people feel heard. That being said, at times it’s a little saccharine (I felt it was just three different ways of saying “live mindfully and be true to yourself”).
The kind of people that respond to “good game” and pick up lines that are overwrought are the type of people I never want to find myself on a date with.
Lol I think the problem is that you and many of your peers don’t like or respect women and you’ll forever be a drunk right swipe but not worth any real effort.
I can’t deal with the fixation with my username. This site makes you get one in order to comment. It’s a throwaway. Calm down. Also v sad lolz that women’s health care gets down voted here.
That’s what’s waiting for you in Texas, guys! Wear a suit to your soul sucking job with white guys with beer guts that love America and guns and women (when they’re not costing them tax dollars over silly things like breast exams, abortions, and cervical cancer screenings, of course!)
Austin is a great place to live if you can deal with the fact that you’re living in Texas. I personally could never live in a red state. The attack on women’s health in Texas is too real.
Uh, “us” who? As another person with ovaries and a distaste for sexist garbage, I’m telling you I’m definitely not standing up for you. I assume you’re grown, and if you covet male attention based primarily on how you look, that’s your prerogative.
First of all this isn’t an article, it’s two sentences with a bunch of screenshots from Instagram. Second of all, why don’t you get with the program? This isn’t Mad Men. The idea that you need to talk about what a babe this girl is before anything else isn’t a hilarious joke that everyone needs to get on board with, it’s a habitual act of sexism.
This ” article ” had plenty of room to be an actual article, and a clever one at that– there’s plenty of things to say about a young woman enjoying and kicking ass in a sport dominated by dudes– but alas it’s just another piece of “look at this hot girl” internet garbage.
Instead just complain about your terrible, boring job obtained by your “useful” degree. Great way to spend four years and thousands of dollars. And the rest of you life.
I’m sure she’s thrilled to get recognition for being “scorching hot” rather than a super skilled fly fisher and hunter.
Pretty cool move, regarding 50 percent of the population as existing solely for your viewing pleasure. Gj.