Charlotte

Member Since 10/27/2013

  • Charlotte 7 years ago on Things Girls Do After Graduation: Horoscope

    I’m sorry but there is just no way that any girl, let alone this girl, made it to their mid 20s without ever reading their horoscope before. She definitely looked up the compatibility chart for her and Todd’s signs within a week of meeting him.

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  • Charlotte 7 years ago on The Problem With Fate & Relationships

    People use “fate” to give meaning to their past disappointments. All your pasts breakups didn’t happen so that you could meet the current love of your life. Your past breakups happened for other reasons (you were immature, long distance, whatever), and now congrats on meeting the love of your life but you may have met them regardless of those breakups. Or if you decided to go to that BBQ Saturday instead of the movies or whatever, you could have met someone even better.

    A year ago I was happily dating “Joe” and remember thinking wow…. if I had never dated my ex “will” I wouldn’t have moved to North Carolina and gotten a job with the company that I eventually moved to my current city with, and I wouldn’t have ever met Joe! Then I realized I was just making up patterns after the fact. That I could have moved to this city regardless, or ran into Joe on a chance encounter, or have still dated will moved here and just gone to a different bar the night I met Joe and have never met him. We broke up as well, but now I realize it’s not fate or so I can meet whoever comes next. It’s because we didn’t work out. Period.

    Everyone makes a million choices each day, and so does the rest of the world. These all pile up and impact where our lives go, but it’s not a set path like “fate” implies.

    Sorry I may have taken too much vyvanse today….

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  • Charlotte 7 years ago on What The Type of Dog You Have Says About You

    I have a jack russell. I think that probably means I have adhd/anxiety and he annoys and smothers anyone who pays the slightest bit of attention? But he’s smart as hell and I love him beyond anyways…

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  • Charlotte 7 years ago on Things Girls Do After Graduation: Yoga Retreat, Part II

    Will – do you have a mental image of what girl looks like? Obviously she’s a 10 based on how she gets by with that personality. But if there were a tv spin off, who would play her? I picture brunette, size 2 obvi, subtle fake boobs but denies it, and just a little too much makeup/perfectly curled hair when she’s just running errands in lululemon.

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  • Charlotte 7 years ago on True Life: I Make More Money Than My Boyfriend

    Single female here – work in software sales and do quite well financially. I’ve noticed that most guys assume I have family money and have no problem with it. But if they find out that I’ve earned it on my own, they lose interest. Not sure if they’re threatened or what. Whatever, I’ll just wait for one who’s not intimidated (or one who out-earns me and we’ll just get married and buy a yacht or something)

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  • Charlotte 7 years ago on What's For Dinner? February 14, 2017

    Didn’t have time to eat lunch today so was starving and ordered Dominos from the app on the way home. Accidentally ordered a pizza without cheese, just crust and sauce. Still ate 3 slices.

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