Lady with the name-change dilemma…
1) Don’t worry about what other’s “expect of you.” This is between you and your husband and that’s it. Not their problem. Not their business.
2) If you really are having second thoughts about changing your name, here are two suggestions
– Change your middle name to your old/current last name, then change your last name to match your husband’s. That way you retain a bit of your name, while also “joining” the husband/wife partnership.
– Change your last name to a hyphenated version, with his last. i.e. Smith-Jones. Frequently you’ll just use “Jones” (his & yours), but it’ll still be distinct.
Regardless, decision is up to you, and perhaps you and your future husband should crack a cold one and have a talk about it.
You’re being absurdly picky. Just because you didn’t want to “rip off his clothes” doesn’t mean your’re not great for each other. The desire for sex will fade.
It’s happened to me! With other 30-ish year olds! I’m assuming you and your wife are similar to my spouse and I, and aren’t interested in the swinging part… See how many unusual comments and how far you can push things to make it weird while your wife sits there like “What the literal fuck is happening”? The story you two will come out with on the back end will be one for the books. It’s now one of our party favorites… ‘The time we were propositioned by the swingers’
I think I found that line the most messed up in this whole article as well. What kind of lunacy leads one to “Its less annoying to just let a guy fuck you”? I guess if one is working in the escort/dancer business, but seriously…
Totally agree with this from a guy’s angle. Although, a chick wearing a blazer on a first date better be some next-level Aphrodite, or I’m out after the first taco. Thanks but no thanks. Ladies have far too many options to be wasting good looks on blazers.
A 2017 Honda CR-V is about $23K
A 2012 Honda CR-V is about $14K
So if I pay $23,000 “inc interest” for a car and my loan is paid off after 5 years, I now have an asset worth $14,000. That cost me about 9% per year for 5 years. The cost is much higher because of depreciation.
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Lady with the name-change dilemma…
1) Don’t worry about what other’s “expect of you.” This is between you and your husband and that’s it. Not their problem. Not their business.
2) If you really are having second thoughts about changing your name, here are two suggestions
– Change your middle name to your old/current last name, then change your last name to match your husband’s. That way you retain a bit of your name, while also “joining” the husband/wife partnership.
– Change your last name to a hyphenated version, with his last. i.e. Smith-Jones. Frequently you’ll just use “Jones” (his & yours), but it’ll still be distinct.
Regardless, decision is up to you, and perhaps you and your future husband should crack a cold one and have a talk about it.
Good luck, sister.
How did you miss the part at the demolition derby where Chris Harrison says something to the effect of “Maybe now Arie will finally win something” ??
This was possibly the best line of the entire season.
You’re being absurdly picky. Just because you didn’t want to “rip off his clothes” doesn’t mean your’re not great for each other. The desire for sex will fade.
Selling equities is a lot more difficult on weed than it is on coke.
Spread your 6-hour trip to the mountains into 6 weeks of instagram posts.
It’s happened to me! With other 30-ish year olds! I’m assuming you and your wife are similar to my spouse and I, and aren’t interested in the swinging part… See how many unusual comments and how far you can push things to make it weird while your wife sits there like “What the literal fuck is happening”? The story you two will come out with on the back end will be one for the books. It’s now one of our party favorites… ‘The time we were propositioned by the swingers’
Pop an addy before the whiskey so your brain can work through the sludge. Good luck bud!!
I think I found that line the most messed up in this whole article as well. What kind of lunacy leads one to “Its less annoying to just let a guy fuck you”? I guess if one is working in the escort/dancer business, but seriously…
Should’ve put $1,000 in Bitcoin back when you started college.
When someone drinks too much…. you pony up and join them. Ducks fly together. Real friends are ducks.
Woof? 😉
I respect Bow Wow, mostly for his name. Bark! Woof!
I suggest a dog bed.
Woof? 😉
Totally agree with this from a guy’s angle. Although, a chick wearing a blazer on a first date better be some next-level Aphrodite, or I’m out after the first taco. Thanks but no thanks. Ladies have far too many options to be wasting good looks on blazers.
“No, I don’t feel like going.” Works well when said to somebody’s face, but you sound like a real grundle-sniffer if you text somebody that.
I’m sure these gals were down those stairs a lot over those 5 months.
Decades of experience, yet she calls the Navy ship a “grey boat.” What professional mariner calls a ship a boat?
Also, she says she went “downstairs” with the boys. Captain, don’t you mean “below” or “below deck”?
If anything they’re just absolute morons
I’m 30 and I don’t know who Post Malone is either….
A 2017 Honda CR-V is about $23K
A 2012 Honda CR-V is about $14K
So if I pay $23,000 “inc interest” for a car and my loan is paid off after 5 years, I now have an asset worth $14,000. That cost me about 9% per year for 5 years. The cost is much higher because of depreciation.