Tanner B

Member Since 02/23/2017

  • Tanner B 6 years ago on A Breakdown Of Our Remote Writer Desk Setups

    Kell. Your desk gave me immediate anxiety. So many shapes and colors. It’s chaos. Also saw way too few candles and liquor bottles. Everyone knows that alcohol benefits the creative process.

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  • Tanner B 6 years ago on Mailbag: Finding Steady Sex, Following A Girl To Another City At The Age Of 24, And Dating Someone With Red Flags

    I’ve always been told – if someone broke up with you, it’s because they think they can do better. And if they try to get back with you, it’s because they are settling. Doesn’t matter how you treated her during the relationship, she’s probably just hitting that point a couple months after the relationship where you get the feels and miss having someone you can rely on. Either way, probably don’t do it, man.

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  • Tanner B 7 years ago on Confessions Of A Serial Monogamist

    I may be crazy, but I feel like often times SMs are using relationships as a crutch to put off dealing with some internal shit, being okay with yourself and finding value in who you are apart from who you SO is. Obviously that’s a generalization, and not always the case. On the other hand, I enjoy being single, and even though I go on dates often enough, it usually doesn’t last long or get too serious (sup NurseJackie). Part of this is healthy I’m sure – all the loving myself and being comfortable without the support of others part – but I’m sure that part of it is my selfish, cold heart not wanting to open up or put in the work to make a real relationship happen and care about someone else. I guess we all have our issues.

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  • Tanner B 7 years ago on Wait, Do I Have A Girlfriend?

    If y’all aren’t seeing anyone else and always hanging out together, you’re dating. You’re boyfriend and girlfriend. Be self aware enough to call it what it is. It’s not like you’re committing to marrying someone else, you’re just committing to not hurting them or screwing someone else till you have a conversation about it. Us millennials have made relationships too big of a deal

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