I pretty much disagree with everything you wrote to the point I don’t have time to get into the reasons why. And frankly don’t give a damn about the downvoters because they’re wrong too.
Virgin emailer: look at their actions, not their words. Women very much care about sex and how capable their partner is- they talk about it all the time, their magazines are all about it, many have never had an orgasm but long for one. Make no mistake, they want a man that knows what he’s doing, despite what they may otherwise say.
However stop giving yourself anxiety about being a virgin and focus on bettering yourself or you’ll continue to self perpetuate your virginity by being stuck in your head about this. This will make you more relaxed, confident, and all around attractive. Do this and you will be sought out and the problem will take care of itself.
And don’t tell anyone unless they ask. Aside from you having an STI (which you should reveal) your sexual history is none of her business, just as hers isn’t yours either. She doesn’t need to know, so this really is all in your head holding you back.
Virgin: I disagree with Dill and believe that yes, girls will care. They may say they don’t, but you have to look at their actions and not their words. By that I mean, look at who they usually flock to, it’s the guy who gets the girls not the virgins, because people are competitive and want to win the person everyone else is going for.
Now, don’t freak out about this. What you do is you stop stressing about being a virgin and you focus on your goals and accomplishments (don’t chase women, chase your goals). You’ll end up not thinking about being a virgin because your focused on your successes and won’t be in a desperate head space, which will naturally attract high quality women and friends into your life and this problem will take care of itself.
Why don’t you two just share these articles with each other privately, you know, like normal people would? I’m assuming you have each other’s numbers, so why are you having inside jokes in the comments section?
And then the day will come when your present life will be far better than your time in college and you won’t really miss it all, but just look back at it with fondness.
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Don’t be a pussy.
Was literally about to type that when I scrolled and saw it was top comment. 100% true, Bill.
I pretty much disagree with everything you wrote to the point I don’t have time to get into the reasons why. And frankly don’t give a damn about the downvoters because they’re wrong too.
Virgin emailer: look at their actions, not their words. Women very much care about sex and how capable their partner is- they talk about it all the time, their magazines are all about it, many have never had an orgasm but long for one. Make no mistake, they want a man that knows what he’s doing, despite what they may otherwise say.
However stop giving yourself anxiety about being a virgin and focus on bettering yourself or you’ll continue to self perpetuate your virginity by being stuck in your head about this. This will make you more relaxed, confident, and all around attractive. Do this and you will be sought out and the problem will take care of itself.
And don’t tell anyone unless they ask. Aside from you having an STI (which you should reveal) your sexual history is none of her business, just as hers isn’t yours either. She doesn’t need to know, so this really is all in your head holding you back.
For his own good, don’t advertise it.
Virgin: I disagree with Dill and believe that yes, girls will care. They may say they don’t, but you have to look at their actions and not their words. By that I mean, look at who they usually flock to, it’s the guy who gets the girls not the virgins, because people are competitive and want to win the person everyone else is going for.
Now, don’t freak out about this. What you do is you stop stressing about being a virgin and you focus on your goals and accomplishments (don’t chase women, chase your goals). You’ll end up not thinking about being a virgin because your focused on your successes and won’t be in a desperate head space, which will naturally attract high quality women and friends into your life and this problem will take care of itself.
You may not think you’re obese because you’re comparing yourself to other Americans, but yes, you are and do look obese.
Start making life changes now.
The same could be said of Illinois and Chicago… Go outside of Chicago, and Illinois is really no different than Iowa or the rest of the Midwest.
It was about 3-4 years out for me.
Remind her how much her ring cost next time she calls you broke.
Exactly. You need to ask for the date with the first 3-5 texts. The longer you wait the higher chance she’ll flake or lose interest.
Guys think they need to get to know a girl first and build rapport … But that’s exactly the entire point of dating.
Indianapolis is the shiny pearl in the sea of corn.
Source: I’m a Hoosier
Why don’t you two just share these articles with each other privately, you know, like normal people would? I’m assuming you have each other’s numbers, so why are you having inside jokes in the comments section?
Just fuck already.
Just because I came, doesn’t mean I O’d.
Agreed, stay natural. Fake ones are jarring and look…Well fake and unnatural.
No… It did not even out.
Emojis, that people put in their contacts, not your contacts and has nothing to do with you, are pretty low on the totem pole, you have to admit.
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And then the day will come when your present life will be far better than your time in college and you won’t really miss it all, but just look back at it with fondness.
There are so many problems and things for people to care about. I don’t think this should be one of them.
Couldn’t be more wrong