For the shorter guy: I’m 5ft flat and I hate dating guys over 6ft. I find it awkward and every guy I am interested in is between 5’8”-5’10”. Everyone has a type.
This is amazing. I totally agree. Relatively recently got out of my first real relationship and I’m at the point where I realize that I’m awesome and did not deserve half of the shit I was put through. Now I love myself and am killing life.
I’m always my guy friend’s go to wingwoman. I tend to make friends with girls in the bathroom, and I know my guy friend’s types to a T. So usually I’ll invite them back to hang out with the group for shots and then let things happen from there.
As someone who frequents wrigleyville more than necessary, I agree with the “stop going to wrigleyville” statement. Went Friday (got home ~2:30am) & Saturday (got home around 5am) and I’m shaking at my desk currently.
Grew up with a dad who coached football & weekends were focused on game day. My suggestion is to keep wiki open on your phone and just google the shit out of the game while you watch.
Yeah my friends just want to go out and get drunk and I’m not ready for that at all. Everything’s just so fresh, I’m trying to get through a day without crying. It wasn’t mutual, but he feels like he lost who his is and is trying to figure life out. I offered to go on a break, but he wanted something more permanent and also he didn’t want to put me through the same thing essentially twice. I guess it helps that I know it was a “not you but me” type of thing. Trying to not hold on to the idea that we can try again but it’s constantly in the back of my mind.
Thank you for this. I’m going through the same thing right now and each day brings new challengers. Adjusting to a whole new life is confusing and lonely. I’m trying to not overwhelm my friends but I just feel very alone. That hardest part is at night, since me and the ex slept in the same bed every night. We agreed to be friends once the time is right, since we were good friends before dating and pretty much every friend we have is mutual. But I’m getting there and yesterday was easier than today, and who knows how I’ll feel tomorrow. Trying to not drink for fear of drunk actions and emotions, but if anyone else has any tips, let me know because this girl is trying to move forward with her life.
Went to a cubs game with coworkers for a half day on Friday. All of us blacked out on the company dime. Showed up at my boyfriend’s house where his roommates family and his brother were visiting for the weekend. Apparently walked into a wall upon entering then passed out in boyfriend’s bed. Puked blue margarita all over his comforter, and slept for 14 hours with intermediate puking. Worst hangover I’ve ever had. Then Sunday, got dumped, but like half of my stuff is at his apartment so I have to go get it after work. It’s been rough.
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This gave me anxiety bc this is me
For the shorter guy: I’m 5ft flat and I hate dating guys over 6ft. I find it awkward and every guy I am interested in is between 5’8”-5’10”. Everyone has a type.
This is amazing. I totally agree. Relatively recently got out of my first real relationship and I’m at the point where I realize that I’m awesome and did not deserve half of the shit I was put through. Now I love myself and am killing life.
As long as it’s not anything worth more than a couple bucks, no one will care or even notice. Trust me, I do the ordering for the office.
I’m always my guy friend’s go to wingwoman. I tend to make friends with girls in the bathroom, and I know my guy friend’s types to a T. So usually I’ll invite them back to hang out with the group for shots and then let things happen from there.
As someone who frequents wrigleyville more than necessary, I agree with the “stop going to wrigleyville” statement. Went Friday (got home ~2:30am) & Saturday (got home around 5am) and I’m shaking at my desk currently.
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Grew up with a dad who coached football & weekends were focused on game day. My suggestion is to keep wiki open on your phone and just google the shit out of the game while you watch.
Yeah my friends just want to go out and get drunk and I’m not ready for that at all. Everything’s just so fresh, I’m trying to get through a day without crying. It wasn’t mutual, but he feels like he lost who his is and is trying to figure life out. I offered to go on a break, but he wanted something more permanent and also he didn’t want to put me through the same thing essentially twice. I guess it helps that I know it was a “not you but me” type of thing. Trying to not hold on to the idea that we can try again but it’s constantly in the back of my mind.
Thank you for this. I’m going through the same thing right now and each day brings new challengers. Adjusting to a whole new life is confusing and lonely. I’m trying to not overwhelm my friends but I just feel very alone. That hardest part is at night, since me and the ex slept in the same bed every night. We agreed to be friends once the time is right, since we were good friends before dating and pretty much every friend we have is mutual. But I’m getting there and yesterday was easier than today, and who knows how I’ll feel tomorrow. Trying to not drink for fear of drunk actions and emotions, but if anyone else has any tips, let me know because this girl is trying to move forward with her life.
Went to a cubs game with coworkers for a half day on Friday. All of us blacked out on the company dime. Showed up at my boyfriend’s house where his roommates family and his brother were visiting for the weekend. Apparently walked into a wall upon entering then passed out in boyfriend’s bed. Puked blue margarita all over his comforter, and slept for 14 hours with intermediate puking. Worst hangover I’ve ever had. Then Sunday, got dumped, but like half of my stuff is at his apartment so I have to go get it after work. It’s been rough.
As a female, I would expect someone to punch me in the face if I ever said “why aren’t you paying attention to me”