Personally, I’d consider signing off an email with “cheers” as sexual harassment. Unless there’s a drink in my hand, don’t “cheers” me. If I were her I definitely wouldn’t go on the date, I’d probably just toss the email into my trash folder and forget about it 5 minutes later.
I grew up in Boston, moved down south for college and am now considering moving back in the summer. Don’t talk to many people from high school but where I am isn’t cutting it anymore. This article definitely made me significantly more nervous about the big move home…
A woman isn’t considered “advanced maternal age” (aka old enough to be at risk for age-related complications) until 35. 33 for multiples. So there’s some wiggle room!
I was dating this guy, we had great sex until one day he started choking me. He’d never done it before and it was so hard I couldn’t tell him to stop. I kicked him in the balls so he’d let go and told him to go fuck himself, got dressed and left. So you could say choking is a hard no from me.
I think a good switch off between big and little spoon is appropriate. Sometimes if I’m in bed with a guy I’m dating, I’ll just make myself the big spoon, guys love it. Also, if you kinda reach your hand down it leads to sex and then after sex I just squirm into little spoon position. It all works out for the best
But if you are too direct, guys think you’re a) crazy or b) clingy. Hence the games. Might as well just act like I don’t care and hope some guy who’s slightly more unsure than I am but willing to give a good effort approaches me and gives me a good reason to let my guard down.
When I read the title I was ready to get all fired up and prove you wrong, but I have nothing of the sort to say. I confuse myself dating. Guys are pretty clear. Either they want you or they don’t. If they drop everything for us, we know they like us. If they’re vague and difficult to get a hold of, we know they don’t. But as women, I think we all play games even if we try not to. We don’t want to appear too interested or not interested enough, we want to be carefree but also want to have that tiny bit of power so we’re not disrespected, we want to seem confident and not needy, but we’re still human and have insecurities… But I mean, I can’t seem to hold onto a guy for more than a few months so what do I really know?
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This skeeves me out.
Who cares what other people think? They don’t like my beer? Then more for me!
You seem like someone I’d definitely ghost.
I usually just grab whatever looks interesting and is under $10. Easy enough for me!
Personally, I’d consider signing off an email with “cheers” as sexual harassment. Unless there’s a drink in my hand, don’t “cheers” me. If I were her I definitely wouldn’t go on the date, I’d probably just toss the email into my trash folder and forget about it 5 minutes later.
Beards just really do it for me. Idk why but I can’t get enough. I support your decision, beard guy.
Lululemon? Really…
I dated a news reporter once. Bad idea. Now and then I accidentally see him on tv. Stay away from “public figures” and get yourself a nice normal man.
Not cool lumping nurse in there. Most of us have bachelors degrees.
I grew up in Boston, moved down south for college and am now considering moving back in the summer. Don’t talk to many people from high school but where I am isn’t cutting it anymore. This article definitely made me significantly more nervous about the big move home…
A woman isn’t considered “advanced maternal age” (aka old enough to be at risk for age-related complications) until 35. 33 for multiples. So there’s some wiggle room!
Same. I need to know…
“Blonde” is for women, “blond” is for men. You’re welcome.
I was dating this guy, we had great sex until one day he started choking me. He’d never done it before and it was so hard I couldn’t tell him to stop. I kicked him in the balls so he’d let go and told him to go fuck himself, got dressed and left. So you could say choking is a hard no from me.
Making fun of a decorated two time Olympian… Nice
I think a good switch off between big and little spoon is appropriate. Sometimes if I’m in bed with a guy I’m dating, I’ll just make myself the big spoon, guys love it. Also, if you kinda reach your hand down it leads to sex and then after sex I just squirm into little spoon position. It all works out for the best
I’m usually direct by default so I try to hold back. But this is good to know.
But if you are too direct, guys think you’re a) crazy or b) clingy. Hence the games. Might as well just act like I don’t care and hope some guy who’s slightly more unsure than I am but willing to give a good effort approaches me and gives me a good reason to let my guard down.
When I read the title I was ready to get all fired up and prove you wrong, but I have nothing of the sort to say. I confuse myself dating. Guys are pretty clear. Either they want you or they don’t. If they drop everything for us, we know they like us. If they’re vague and difficult to get a hold of, we know they don’t. But as women, I think we all play games even if we try not to. We don’t want to appear too interested or not interested enough, we want to be carefree but also want to have that tiny bit of power so we’re not disrespected, we want to seem confident and not needy, but we’re still human and have insecurities… But I mean, I can’t seem to hold onto a guy for more than a few months so what do I really know?
But how can they be a bakery if they don’t actually bake…