I would say no because usually in those cases there aren’t feelings involved and there’s a pretty clear understanding that you’re just going to occasionally booty call each other.
Oh I absolutely agree. My two biggest turnoffs are someone who brags about money or complains about money all the time. I was just saying even if she isn’t bragging guys could figure it out and get uncomfortable quickly.
You don’t have to bring it up for someone to be able to figure it out. It’s pretty easy to determine from context clues that are going to come up in normal conversation like where a person lives, if they live alone, how often they travel and where they travel to – unless of course they’re living wildly beyond their means.
With ghosting you can easily come to a rational conclusion that the person isn’t interested. With breadcrumbing it’s a lot easier to convince yourself you’re going crazy because “if they’re still talking to me they must be somewhat interested, right?” Breadcrumbing is way more cruel.
I’m so sad I’ve never had a dog-friendly workplace. Lots of my friends do though and they have asked to borrow my dog to take him to work. The world isn’t fair.
Or if she doesn’t feel comfortable approaching the guy just report it to a bartender/bouncer/manager and more likely than not they’ll have the guy escorted out of the bar and nobody risks getting in a physical altercation.
I always respect when my friends say they don’t want to do something because they want to be fiscally responsible. The only time I’m going to call you cheap is if you don’t pay your fair share when you’re out with everyone else.
More than $40 on a haircut for a dude is insane. I go to a place where I can get consistently great women’s haircuts for $52. The men’s shouldn’t be more than $35.
Agree. I really don’t understand the appeal of intentionally trying to push boundaries and piss people off for entertainment value when there’s such a huge risk to your future career and reputation. There are so many options, just pick something else.
I think the couch crashing thing depends on where you live. I live in a one-bedroom in DC and I invested in a really nice air mattress that friends can stay on when they visit because it’s so expensive to stay in hotels here. It’s also probably different for girls having other girlfriends visit because we’re totally cool sharing the bed.
I recently found out I had been pronouncing my best friend’s name wrong the entire time I’ve known her. Who knew you were supposed to pronounce Jordan as “Jerr-dan”?!
My friends and I do the same thing you’re describing. When you’re drinking different things at different paces it doesn’t make sense to wait until all your friends need another drink to head back to the bar.
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There is no way Girl is lazy enough to do Stranger Things costumes two years in a row…
I like to think I’m a female Aidan. Ditched a cheating, asshole ex and had a major glow up.
I would say no because usually in those cases there aren’t feelings involved and there’s a pretty clear understanding that you’re just going to occasionally booty call each other.
Oh I absolutely agree. My two biggest turnoffs are someone who brags about money or complains about money all the time. I was just saying even if she isn’t bragging guys could figure it out and get uncomfortable quickly.
You don’t have to bring it up for someone to be able to figure it out. It’s pretty easy to determine from context clues that are going to come up in normal conversation like where a person lives, if they live alone, how often they travel and where they travel to – unless of course they’re living wildly beyond their means.
With ghosting you can easily come to a rational conclusion that the person isn’t interested. With breadcrumbing it’s a lot easier to convince yourself you’re going crazy because “if they’re still talking to me they must be somewhat interested, right?” Breadcrumbing is way more cruel.
Gotta love the move of following up two paragraphs of arguing your case with, “It’s stupid getting into an argument…”
I know this isn’t the point but how are you spending over $1000 on Junior League?! Even in DC it’s less than $300 a year.
I’m actually going as Powerline for Halloween this year. Currently working on memorizing the choreography.
I’m so sad I’ve never had a dog-friendly workplace. Lots of my friends do though and they have asked to borrow my dog to take him to work. The world isn’t fair.
Or if she doesn’t feel comfortable approaching the guy just report it to a bartender/bouncer/manager and more likely than not they’ll have the guy escorted out of the bar and nobody risks getting in a physical altercation.
I always respect when my friends say they don’t want to do something because they want to be fiscally responsible. The only time I’m going to call you cheap is if you don’t pay your fair share when you’re out with everyone else.
More than $40 on a haircut for a dude is insane. I go to a place where I can get consistently great women’s haircuts for $52. The men’s shouldn’t be more than $35.
How do you leave hockey out of this?!
Agree. I really don’t understand the appeal of intentionally trying to push boundaries and piss people off for entertainment value when there’s such a huge risk to your future career and reputation. There are so many options, just pick something else.
I think the couch crashing thing depends on where you live. I live in a one-bedroom in DC and I invested in a really nice air mattress that friends can stay on when they visit because it’s so expensive to stay in hotels here. It’s also probably different for girls having other girlfriends visit because we’re totally cool sharing the bed.
I recently found out I had been pronouncing my best friend’s name wrong the entire time I’ve known her. Who knew you were supposed to pronounce Jordan as “Jerr-dan”?!
My friends and I do the same thing you’re describing. When you’re drinking different things at different paces it doesn’t make sense to wait until all your friends need another drink to head back to the bar.
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Does your girlfriend only have female friends?