I’ve been in the bay for nearly 10 years and most of my friends grew up in the city and hella is very much a natural part of their vocabulary. I’ve seen the word spreading to other regions with people making a seemingly conscious effort to start using it which is weird but there is nothing wrong with Bay Area folks saying hella. I have worked with youth ages 6-24 and they still grow up saying hecka/hella.
No need to suffer in silence, dude, anonymously venting personal frustrations is what the internet is here for. Have you guys tried couples counseling though?
If you’re going to disassociate from the experience why would you even want to have it. This is one of many aspects of male sexuality that I have always found confusing…
If you do nut too quickly please don’t melt into a puddle of awkward shame and start making weird excuses. It’s ok, it happens; the weird shit that happens afterward is often the bigger turn off. Just get your face between her legs and keep it moving and don’t you dare half ass it because “you’re tired”
Also a male friend of mine mentioned that he took maca root while training for a race and it also helped with his endurance in the bedroom.
Also born and raised in LA and also kiss my mom and friends and even my friends’ moms that I’ve known since childhood. It’s only weird if you make it weird.
Dunno if you’re already up on this but if not then you should check out Simpson wave. Recommend rolling a j and putting your phone on dnd before doing so.
1. I truly have only see white women behaving like that. You can discern your own reasons for that.
2. It’s not racist to point out someone’s race.
3. Most obviously, racism is a structure of oppression and hatred at which white folks (not all, obviously) have facilitated and perpetuated. People of color do not have a system of oppression in which white people suffer, therefore reverse racism is actually not possible and not a thing. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
The most awkward is seeing 30 something wealthy white women w babies and/or huge engagement rings having lunch mid week at an expensive restaurant wearing an “I can’t adult today” shirt with yoga pants and a puffer vest even though it’s 60 degrees out.
She’s not even taking a feminist stance. She is, for some reason, overly concerned about hypothetical ramifications his post might have on his relationship. So does feminazi= upset about anything at all + female? I also didn’t realize feminazi was a term that was used outside of like 4chan and Breitbart…?
I wouldn’t actually “play it” any sort of way. You will continue to drive yourself crazy and never be free if you try to play it cool in hopes of getting them back. Once a relationship ends the best thing to do is confront the painful emotions and then truly work on accepting the fact that it’s over. Whether that means unfollowing them, blocking them, whatever. Most of us will of course slip up and do something embarrassing when in the throes of break up agony and I think that’s also part of the process. The relationship might work out in the future or it might not. You can’t control the future or change the past so focusing on accepting the present situation is what has helped me come out of break ups with a more evolved understanding of myself. Playing games keeps you forever chained to the person that hurt you and thus unable to truly heal.
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I’ve been in the bay for nearly 10 years and most of my friends grew up in the city and hella is very much a natural part of their vocabulary. I’ve seen the word spreading to other regions with people making a seemingly conscious effort to start using it which is weird but there is nothing wrong with Bay Area folks saying hella. I have worked with youth ages 6-24 and they still grow up saying hecka/hella.
No need to suffer in silence, dude, anonymously venting personal frustrations is what the internet is here for. Have you guys tried couples counseling though?
Lol yiiiiikes.
Right. Like I am down to nurse your ego back to a healthy size but I’m gonna need to get that O first.
If you’re going to disassociate from the experience why would you even want to have it. This is one of many aspects of male sexuality that I have always found confusing…
If you do nut too quickly please don’t melt into a puddle of awkward shame and start making weird excuses. It’s ok, it happens; the weird shit that happens afterward is often the bigger turn off. Just get your face between her legs and keep it moving and don’t you dare half ass it because “you’re tired”
Also a male friend of mine mentioned that he took maca root while training for a race and it also helped with his endurance in the bedroom.
Def DM. Texting when she didn’t give you her number is weird and way creepier than DM.
If relationship context allows this is actually the best way to recover from an accidental deep like
Ya Sephora is cancelled. Fuck w Glossier.
Also born and raised in LA and also kiss my mom and friends and even my friends’ moms that I’ve known since childhood. It’s only weird if you make it weird.
Dunno if you’re already up on this but if not then you should check out Simpson wave. Recommend rolling a j and putting your phone on dnd before doing so.
Beyond the deeply concerning health implications, this premise feels a bit 90s/ early aughts for me.
1. I truly have only see white women behaving like that. You can discern your own reasons for that.
2. It’s not racist to point out someone’s race.
3. Most obviously, racism is a structure of oppression and hatred at which white folks (not all, obviously) have facilitated and perpetuated. People of color do not have a system of oppression in which white people suffer, therefore reverse racism is actually not possible and not a thing. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Where’s the racism though?
The most awkward is seeing 30 something wealthy white women w babies and/or huge engagement rings having lunch mid week at an expensive restaurant wearing an “I can’t adult today” shirt with yoga pants and a puffer vest even though it’s 60 degrees out.
She’s not even taking a feminist stance. She is, for some reason, overly concerned about hypothetical ramifications his post might have on his relationship. So does feminazi= upset about anything at all + female? I also didn’t realize feminazi was a term that was used outside of like 4chan and Breitbart…?
If you’re only going to bang one dude at a time why wouldn’t you just lock it down?
More like odds of you all agreeing on what a 10 is are pretty slim. Seems pretty standard for a dude to think his girl is a 10….
That shirt is absolutely a blouse.
I wouldn’t actually “play it” any sort of way. You will continue to drive yourself crazy and never be free if you try to play it cool in hopes of getting them back. Once a relationship ends the best thing to do is confront the painful emotions and then truly work on accepting the fact that it’s over. Whether that means unfollowing them, blocking them, whatever. Most of us will of course slip up and do something embarrassing when in the throes of break up agony and I think that’s also part of the process. The relationship might work out in the future or it might not. You can’t control the future or change the past so focusing on accepting the present situation is what has helped me come out of break ups with a more evolved understanding of myself. Playing games keeps you forever chained to the person that hurt you and thus unable to truly heal.