If you’re in a relationship (long distance or not), and you let your social life die- you gotta change something up. Healthy relationships include healthy social lives outside of one another.
Hit me hard on a Friday. We all have that person who’s responsible for that chip on your shoulder that makes you more cautious next time around. Good stuff Johnny.
I moved in with a guy post-graduation, and while it didn’t last long, it was an important life lesson. It was way too early to share a space, but I saved myself a lot of wasted time by realizing soon enough that we couldn’t live together. I think a compromise for girl #1 might be live together if/when you get engaged? That way there’s still time to jump ship if it’s totally awful.
To the girl who feels like a placeholder- I have been there and can empathize. Only advice I could add: sometimes it’s okay to take a total dating hiatus. It gives you more time to reevaluate your life/what makes you happy, and spend time with your girlfriends. I can honestly attest, I don’t mind as much if guys aren’t interested now, because my life is great as is with my friends, so dating is more of like a bonus. Good luck out there!
Best column of yours. I’ve been in the same boat-being too busy and the guy finds someone else. I always remember if I was really that interested, I would’ve made the time. That usually helps me lose any fomo.
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Definitely would go to that party in a heartbeat.
Man it’s feelings like those that are why I’m so slow to get into anything serious again. Major Friday flashbacks, keep it up.
Do the people you work with realize how much of of a poet you are with abc’s finest shit show of love?
Like a brisk stroll
If you’re in a relationship (long distance or not), and you let your social life die- you gotta change something up. Healthy relationships include healthy social lives outside of one another.
Glad you didn’t change your mdw plans for her. Maybe slow up on the triple texts and let her pursue you? Girls like a little chase.
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Don’t forget the natty bros
Hit me hard on a Friday. We all have that person who’s responsible for that chip on your shoulder that makes you more cautious next time around. Good stuff Johnny.
Nice little Susan Boyle surprise at the end there
Keepin it real in the dmv. The only time a wedding is happy to have crabs.
I moved in with a guy post-graduation, and while it didn’t last long, it was an important life lesson. It was way too early to share a space, but I saved myself a lot of wasted time by realizing soon enough that we couldn’t live together. I think a compromise for girl #1 might be live together if/when you get engaged? That way there’s still time to jump ship if it’s totally awful.
This makes me very grateful for my group of friends who care more about drinking and eating nachos than Instagram popularity.
Strong photo, Paul Rudd is my dream man.
“Rosé bottles are available by the case only” PGPM.
Marry, fuck, kill: Sansa, cersei, daenerys?
They hate us cuz they ain’t us
To the girl who feels like a placeholder- I have been there and can empathize. Only advice I could add: sometimes it’s okay to take a total dating hiatus. It gives you more time to reevaluate your life/what makes you happy, and spend time with your girlfriends. I can honestly attest, I don’t mind as much if guys aren’t interested now, because my life is great as is with my friends, so dating is more of like a bonus. Good luck out there!
Think I can find some time in my sched
Best column of yours. I’ve been in the same boat-being too busy and the guy finds someone else. I always remember if I was really that interested, I would’ve made the time. That usually helps me lose any fomo.