Very similar thing happened to me. I actually took to walking only along walls (more support) because my downstairs neighbor would scream obscenities for walking to the bathroom to get ready for work at 8AM.
You could always try talking to your neighbors below you (if you have them) to get an idea of what kind of noise travels through floors by you walking around. If they say they can hear you, then your building is like 99% of apartments and is shit. If they say they can’t hear anything, you could just go talk to your neighbors upstairs and ask them to be a little more mindful of their steps. Some people really don’t realize how much noise their steps make. Any note/noise complaint is passive aggressive AF and is gonna make the rest of your leases torture.
This is why you have multiple. A car chapstick, a night table chapstick, a work chapstick, a purse/briefcase/whatever you men carry nowadays chapstick. I’ve finished 3 this year without losing a single one. You can’t lose them if they are literally everywhere.
Same here. My dad died when I was 8, and usually the first couple dates I just say what my mom does. So far so good on everyone assuming that I’d mention my dad if I want to and haven’t asked until we get to know each other a lot better.
Just talk to the bride. It may not even be her fault that she has four. It could always be her aunts insisting on having one, the grooms mom/aunts insisting on throwing one, etc. Just ask if she’d really like you to be at them all and say it might not be feasible and you want to know which one(s) are most important you attend.
My best friend and sister both had two for their weddings and both of them were very upfront about people absolutely not having to attend both (as even they realized showers at all, especially more than one, are excessive).
It’s because biologically there is really no such thing as a “vegetable”. Vegetable just describes the parts of plants that we eat, such as fruits of plants (cucumbers, squash, green beans, tomatoes), leaves (spinach, lettuce, cabbage) bulbs (onions, garlic) or roots (carrots, beets).
Absolutely agree on the last one. Agreed to go on a bachelorette party that’s in two weeks because I legitimately want to visit the city and this gave me a good reason to go. I’ve already spend NINE HUNDRED AND EIGHT DOLLARS and haven’t even left Missouri yet.
The second best part of my mom’s huge garden growing up (first was obviously the fresh produce which is a billion times more delicious than any supermarket produce ) was canning the extras. Having jars and jars of homemade salsa, marinara sauce, pickles, sauerkraut etc. keeps the goods coming all year round.
I watched Inside Out in my college’s computer lab because I thought it’d be a nice, upbeat movie to have on in the background of my schoolwork. I had a complete breakdown. Sobbing, hyperventilating, the works. All in a public space.
I have an ass tat. 10/10 would recommend. Tricky area because you can’t get anything too sappy cause that’s weird but like, it’s also still on you forever. Still, if I woke up tomorrow and it was gone, I’d go straight to the tattoo parlor and get it again.
My high school closed after my class graduated and they let us seniors go on the field trip to the zoo with the first graders (the same field trip we got to go on in first grade) and I’m sure us 18 year olds were 10,000 times more excited about it than the first graders.
It’s not so much that they’re not interested in anything serious, it’s that they’re not interested in anything serious with you. It’s a bitter frickin’ pill to swallow and it doesn’t get easier the more times you swallow it, but it’s the truth.
Yeah man Culver’s is the bomb and we love talking about it. They have bomb ass butter burgers, corn dogs, cheese curds, custard and their own brand of root beer. We are unashamed about our love for Culver’s.
THIS. Lost my dad when I was 8 and the portion of your life with memories of them just gets smaller and smaller as the years go on. And the memories you do have are through the lens of a child.
It’s the awful fluorescent lighting most dressing rooms have. Go take a look at yourself in a Victoria’s Secret room. That lighting is literally designed to make you look your best while you’re standing there in bras and underwear.
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Very similar thing happened to me. I actually took to walking only along walls (more support) because my downstairs neighbor would scream obscenities for walking to the bathroom to get ready for work at 8AM.
You could always try talking to your neighbors below you (if you have them) to get an idea of what kind of noise travels through floors by you walking around. If they say they can hear you, then your building is like 99% of apartments and is shit. If they say they can’t hear anything, you could just go talk to your neighbors upstairs and ask them to be a little more mindful of their steps. Some people really don’t realize how much noise their steps make. Any note/noise complaint is passive aggressive AF and is gonna make the rest of your leases torture.
This is why you have multiple. A car chapstick, a night table chapstick, a work chapstick, a purse/briefcase/whatever you men carry nowadays chapstick. I’ve finished 3 this year without losing a single one. You can’t lose them if they are literally everywhere.
Same here. My dad died when I was 8, and usually the first couple dates I just say what my mom does. So far so good on everyone assuming that I’d mention my dad if I want to and haven’t asked until we get to know each other a lot better.
Bridal Shower Girl:
Just talk to the bride. It may not even be her fault that she has four. It could always be her aunts insisting on having one, the grooms mom/aunts insisting on throwing one, etc. Just ask if she’d really like you to be at them all and say it might not be feasible and you want to know which one(s) are most important you attend.
My best friend and sister both had two for their weddings and both of them were very upfront about people absolutely not having to attend both (as even they realized showers at all, especially more than one, are excessive).
It’s because biologically there is really no such thing as a “vegetable”. Vegetable just describes the parts of plants that we eat, such as fruits of plants (cucumbers, squash, green beans, tomatoes), leaves (spinach, lettuce, cabbage) bulbs (onions, garlic) or roots (carrots, beets).
Absolutely agree on the last one. Agreed to go on a bachelorette party that’s in two weeks because I legitimately want to visit the city and this gave me a good reason to go. I’ve already spend NINE HUNDRED AND EIGHT DOLLARS and haven’t even left Missouri yet.
The second best part of my mom’s huge garden growing up (first was obviously the fresh produce which is a billion times more delicious than any supermarket produce ) was canning the extras. Having jars and jars of homemade salsa, marinara sauce, pickles, sauerkraut etc. keeps the goods coming all year round.
Got a first date tonight- actually getting picked up/the whole nine yards (internet dating standards are aggressively low) so that should be fun!
I watched Inside Out in my college’s computer lab because I thought it’d be a nice, upbeat movie to have on in the background of my schoolwork. I had a complete breakdown. Sobbing, hyperventilating, the works. All in a public space.
“I know, I know, it’s early af but I figured we don’t have too many of these left so we need to do it up right (and before anyone gets pregnant lol).”
The subtle shade that Girl is one of the last to get married is IMPECCABLE.
I have an ass tat. 10/10 would recommend. Tricky area because you can’t get anything too sappy cause that’s weird but like, it’s also still on you forever. Still, if I woke up tomorrow and it was gone, I’d go straight to the tattoo parlor and get it again.
Absolutely NO mention of Phyllis and Bob Vance, Vance Refrigeration?!?!
My high school closed after my class graduated and they let us seniors go on the field trip to the zoo with the first graders (the same field trip we got to go on in first grade) and I’m sure us 18 year olds were 10,000 times more excited about it than the first graders.
I feel like once you start kissing romantic partners, you can stop kissing your parents.
It’s not so much that they’re not interested in anything serious, it’s that they’re not interested in anything serious with you. It’s a bitter frickin’ pill to swallow and it doesn’t get easier the more times you swallow it, but it’s the truth.
In defense of Gwyneth, I’ve had that coffee. It’s worth shipping across the country.
Yeah man Culver’s is the bomb and we love talking about it. They have bomb ass butter burgers, corn dogs, cheese curds, custard and their own brand of root beer. We are unashamed about our love for Culver’s.
THIS. Lost my dad when I was 8 and the portion of your life with memories of them just gets smaller and smaller as the years go on. And the memories you do have are through the lens of a child.
“NO ONE TOLD YOU TO COME IN ME!”
No one also told him “Hey I’m not on BC so let’s not make a baby” either so……………..?
It’s the awful fluorescent lighting most dressing rooms have. Go take a look at yourself in a Victoria’s Secret room. That lighting is literally designed to make you look your best while you’re standing there in bras and underwear.