“But where does that leave all the girls like me—the ones who aren’t forward enough to approach guys on their own, but who aren’t being approached by guys anymore?”
‘But where does that leave all the guys like me — the ones who aren’t forward enough to approach girls on their own, but who haven’t been approached by girls, ever?’
Most of the girls I’ve ever dated have asked me out initially. And it’s not because I’m necessarily hesitant to approach them; it’s because when a man approaches a girl they’re instantly thrown into a vast category of douchebags.
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“But where does that leave all the girls like me—the ones who aren’t forward enough to approach guys on their own, but who aren’t being approached by guys anymore?”
‘But where does that leave all the guys like me — the ones who aren’t forward enough to approach girls on their own, but who haven’t been approached by girls, ever?’
Most of the girls I’ve ever dated have asked me out initially. And it’s not because I’m necessarily hesitant to approach them; it’s because when a man approaches a girl they’re instantly thrown into a vast category of douchebags.