DING DING DING winner. This works, you have to let her miss you and think about you and how great you were to her. And after coming on strong or being rejected you do this by going full no contact and setting up real dates when she finally reaches out.
DING DING DING winner. This works, you have to let her miss you and think about you and how great you were to her. And after coming on strong or being rejected you do this by going full no contact and setting up real dates when she finally reaches out.
But if you keep blowing up her phone when she’s not that hot about you, you’re showing her that you aren’t much of a catch and she’s your only option and she’s going to be less and less attracted to you.
Yep. And I’m getting downvoted, even though the people who know better (like cornerofficesuit) know that I’m giving him the answer key to the test and he’s saying “nah I’ll just fucking wing it.” There will be more friendzone articles for sure.
His next article he tells me “nah I’m good.” The truth hurts and people only want to hear what they want to hear. I’m literally telling him EXACTLY how to win the girl he’s been crushing on forever now, but he won’t listen. He’ll keep hanging out with her as her buddy and hang on to the hope that one day she’ll love him.
500 Days of Summer is a how to guide on losing a girl’s interest in you over time. The entire movie Tom is wrapped up into Summer and way more into her than she is him, which is never good. It’s only in the end of the movie when he starts putting himself, his passion and his goals first (people are attracted to people with goals and passion) does he regain a sense of purpose and is able to confidently ask out Autumn, and confidently walk away when she initially says “no”. This a serious lesson the movie imparts on the viewers: be your own person, have goals and drive and not be wrapped up in someone else, and this will attract the right people into your life.
You’re fucked then and going to keep making the same mistakes. I literally gave you a play by play on how to get Mia crazy into you at one point. Stay on the same course though, insanity is repeating the same thing over and over expecting a different result.
You need to go back yesterday and read every comment I posted, I’m trying to help you fix the situation, clean up your game, and get control of your life (read: stop getting friend zoned). Do this, take some time away from writing another woe is me article and listening to a Taylor Swift song, and do some serious reflection.
You need to set up a date IMMEDIATELY. The phone is for making dates, not texting back and forth getting to know each other (that’s what the date is for). The more you text her back and forth, especially early in the dating process, the faster her attraction and interest to you will drop and you will be friend zoned. Man up and make your move now and cut back on texting other than to set up the next date (you will thank me later).
After 2-3 dates/weeks, you should notice that she’ll start initiating texts with you and pursuing you- this is what you want to happen. You just have to set up those initial dates, don’t text in between, and let it unfold naturally. Men who over text communicate that they’re more into her than she is them and that he has nothing better going on in his life than wait by the phone for her, and she wants you to have something going on and to be interesting.
Also, hint hint Max. If Mia is thinking and wondering about this guy and how she wants to hook up with him, then maybe you should take notes as to what that guy is doing (answer: being mysterious/not being available/having options/not getting hung up on one girl/making her wonder if she’s got a chance with him/setting up real dates/not being her fucking friend). Girls are more into guys who’s feelings about them are unclear- she knows how you feel about her, but she can’t figure out this other guy (“why won’t he have sex with her? Isn’t she in his league? He must like her though because he said or did xyz though right??? Right? …” This is what she’s thinking, this is the game, this guy is on her mind because his feelings are unclear and he’s created sexual tension, meanwhile Mia is trying to set you up with her friend…). Take notes, also read my comment I posted last night near the bottom to best help you in your friendzone situation.
You can take a horse to the water but you can’t make it drink. He probably won’t read this or take the advice of a commenter because he’s seen so many movies and thinks he can friend this girl into loving him, not knowing you need to be her lover first and all the friendship stuff will develop naturally as a relationship does slowly over time.
Like all teachers, I pass on this knowledge from advice of those before me and from my own personal experience- I had to learn the hard way. Hopefully he takes it and stops writing about being friendzoned.
Let’s be honest, none of these girls are going to stay with a guy who’s bringing them to meet their parents and showering them with designer gifts on date one. Or the kind of guy who after being rejected flies to another town to leave a diary at the girls doorstep.
Whoever wins will leave Ari, not because it’s a reality show and these things never work, but because of how he acts.
Bekah will be one of the last ones standing because her game is on point. She’s making him fight for her saying she didn’t need to have him, while other girls are asking him why they haven’t been kissed yet. Yeah, Bekah knows what she’s doing.
That guy isn’t gay or a virgin, he’s most likely dating other girls that he’s more into than Mia and it’s driving Mia crazy. Mia is probably going nuts for this other dude right now.
Sorry but let’s stop feeding this fantasy world Max is living in.
Dude… You’re acting like Hitch was in college, where he was needy and didn’t understand how to attract women.
What you need to do is hang out, have fun, and hook up. In other words be a man, because want their men to be men. Girls want guys who do those 3 things and aren’t breathing down their neck for a relationship right out the gate, because they want a challenge, they want the guy they can’t fully commit to a relationship right away. But you’re talking about friendship and relationship from the start and it reads as over eager, desperate, and too easy, and no girl wants a guy that they think is easy. You’re that guy. You’re easy. You’re available. You’re on a date that isn’t clearly defined as a date. Mia knows she can have you, so she doesn’t want you.
You’re deluding yourself and projecting your interest level onto the situation. You have multiple people here telling you that you are acting like a friendzoned pussy and need a reality check. Man up and ask her out on a real date and when she says no, move on and don’t contact her again. If you do contact her again after being rejected, then you’re caving like a wuss and being her friend. Just like literally any negotiation in life, the most powerful thing you can do is be ok with walking away in order to show your worth. And you need to walk away and never look back and she maybe (MAYBE) might miss you. But you being this sappy loser pinning for her, dude it’s never going to happen with your approach. It’s not the movies. You’re creating your own misery and suffering.
Max, I’m going to help you, this is going to be long but you need this. If you really really want Mia, stop being her fucking friend. You need to ask her on a real date, if she gives you the “I see you as a friend” deal then you need to tell her that you “can’t just be friends with her, but if she ever changes her mind give you a call.” And then DISAPPEAR. Don’t call her, don’t text, no happy birthday/merry Christmas, no liking her posts or watching stories, you need to make her feel life without you. If you keep being there for her she will keep treating you the way she does. Do not reach out to her ever again, PERIOD, let her reach out to you from now on (most guys don’t do this because they think “oh I havent talked to her in X days/weeks/months I have to do something to win this girl over.” This is the opposite of the truth. You need to do nothing and make her curious and wonder about you to where she reaches out).
Now IF (I say if because you might have done irreparable damage at this point) she reaches out, you need to assume she’s doing so because she wants to see you (remember you’re a catch and you’re awesome), and you need to set up a date immediately, don’t engage in chit chat, the phone is for setting up dates. If she declines, tell her “ok well I’m busy and have to go, give me a call if you change your mind.” You will do this only twice. If she rejects you twice, then all future times she reaches out it has to be her idea to see you. And each time keep all conversations short and make sure you’re the one ending them because you’re too busy for her.
In the meantime, start dating other girls. A lot of other girls. This will help you to move on, improve your game, realize that there are plenty of girls better than Mia that are into you, and might even make Mia a little jealous if she sees you with these other girls. Finally you have to let this girl come to you because right now you’re her available buddy, which you don’t want to be.
And if you didn’t have time to read all this, then you deserve to keep fucking up and suffering with Mia.
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^this was meant to be in response to bill nye responding to me above. Disregard
DING DING DING winner. This works, you have to let her miss you and think about you and how great you were to her. And after coming on strong or being rejected you do this by going full no contact and setting up real dates when she finally reaches out.
Think about how glorious it will be when you finally get with Mia and write that article saying how you’ve made it out of the friendzone.
You have nothing to lose dude. Take my free advice I promise it will work. You’ll thank me later.
DING DING DING winner. This works, you have to let her miss you and think about you and how great you were to her. And after coming on strong or being rejected you do this by going full no contact and setting up real dates when she finally reaches out.
But if you keep blowing up her phone when she’s not that hot about you, you’re showing her that you aren’t much of a catch and she’s your only option and she’s going to be less and less attracted to you.
Yep. And I’m getting downvoted, even though the people who know better (like cornerofficesuit) know that I’m giving him the answer key to the test and he’s saying “nah I’ll just fucking wing it.” There will be more friendzone articles for sure.
His next article he tells me “nah I’m good.” The truth hurts and people only want to hear what they want to hear. I’m literally telling him EXACTLY how to win the girl he’s been crushing on forever now, but he won’t listen. He’ll keep hanging out with her as her buddy and hang on to the hope that one day she’ll love him.
500 Days of Summer is a how to guide on losing a girl’s interest in you over time. The entire movie Tom is wrapped up into Summer and way more into her than she is him, which is never good. It’s only in the end of the movie when he starts putting himself, his passion and his goals first (people are attracted to people with goals and passion) does he regain a sense of purpose and is able to confidently ask out Autumn, and confidently walk away when she initially says “no”. This a serious lesson the movie imparts on the viewers: be your own person, have goals and drive and not be wrapped up in someone else, and this will attract the right people into your life.
You’re fucked then and going to keep making the same mistakes. I literally gave you a play by play on how to get Mia crazy into you at one point. Stay on the same course though, insanity is repeating the same thing over and over expecting a different result.
You need to go back yesterday and read every comment I posted, I’m trying to help you fix the situation, clean up your game, and get control of your life (read: stop getting friend zoned). Do this, take some time away from writing another woe is me article and listening to a Taylor Swift song, and do some serious reflection.
You need to set up a date IMMEDIATELY. The phone is for making dates, not texting back and forth getting to know each other (that’s what the date is for). The more you text her back and forth, especially early in the dating process, the faster her attraction and interest to you will drop and you will be friend zoned. Man up and make your move now and cut back on texting other than to set up the next date (you will thank me later).
After 2-3 dates/weeks, you should notice that she’ll start initiating texts with you and pursuing you- this is what you want to happen. You just have to set up those initial dates, don’t text in between, and let it unfold naturally. Men who over text communicate that they’re more into her than she is them and that he has nothing better going on in his life than wait by the phone for her, and she wants you to have something going on and to be interesting.
iMessage and the fact apple is industry standard is pretty much the only reason I have an iPhone still.
Also, hint hint Max. If Mia is thinking and wondering about this guy and how she wants to hook up with him, then maybe you should take notes as to what that guy is doing (answer: being mysterious/not being available/having options/not getting hung up on one girl/making her wonder if she’s got a chance with him/setting up real dates/not being her fucking friend). Girls are more into guys who’s feelings about them are unclear- she knows how you feel about her, but she can’t figure out this other guy (“why won’t he have sex with her? Isn’t she in his league? He must like her though because he said or did xyz though right??? Right? …” This is what she’s thinking, this is the game, this guy is on her mind because his feelings are unclear and he’s created sexual tension, meanwhile Mia is trying to set you up with her friend…). Take notes, also read my comment I posted last night near the bottom to best help you in your friendzone situation.
You can take a horse to the water but you can’t make it drink. He probably won’t read this or take the advice of a commenter because he’s seen so many movies and thinks he can friend this girl into loving him, not knowing you need to be her lover first and all the friendship stuff will develop naturally as a relationship does slowly over time.
Like all teachers, I pass on this knowledge from advice of those before me and from my own personal experience- I had to learn the hard way. Hopefully he takes it and stops writing about being friendzoned.
Let’s be honest, none of these girls are going to stay with a guy who’s bringing them to meet their parents and showering them with designer gifts on date one. Or the kind of guy who after being rejected flies to another town to leave a diary at the girls doorstep.
Whoever wins will leave Ari, not because it’s a reality show and these things never work, but because of how he acts.
Bekah will be one of the last ones standing because her game is on point. She’s making him fight for her saying she didn’t need to have him, while other girls are asking him why they haven’t been kissed yet. Yeah, Bekah knows what she’s doing.
That guy isn’t gay or a virgin, he’s most likely dating other girls that he’s more into than Mia and it’s driving Mia crazy. Mia is probably going nuts for this other dude right now.
Sorry but let’s stop feeding this fantasy world Max is living in.
Dude… You’re acting like Hitch was in college, where he was needy and didn’t understand how to attract women.
What you need to do is hang out, have fun, and hook up. In other words be a man, because want their men to be men. Girls want guys who do those 3 things and aren’t breathing down their neck for a relationship right out the gate, because they want a challenge, they want the guy they can’t fully commit to a relationship right away. But you’re talking about friendship and relationship from the start and it reads as over eager, desperate, and too easy, and no girl wants a guy that they think is easy. You’re that guy. You’re easy. You’re available. You’re on a date that isn’t clearly defined as a date. Mia knows she can have you, so she doesn’t want you.
You’re deluding yourself and projecting your interest level onto the situation. You have multiple people here telling you that you are acting like a friendzoned pussy and need a reality check. Man up and ask her out on a real date and when she says no, move on and don’t contact her again. If you do contact her again after being rejected, then you’re caving like a wuss and being her friend. Just like literally any negotiation in life, the most powerful thing you can do is be ok with walking away in order to show your worth. And you need to walk away and never look back and she maybe (MAYBE) might miss you. But you being this sappy loser pinning for her, dude it’s never going to happen with your approach. It’s not the movies. You’re creating your own misery and suffering.
You need to start watching Corey Wayne on YouTube immediately, Max.
Max, I’m going to help you, this is going to be long but you need this. If you really really want Mia, stop being her fucking friend. You need to ask her on a real date, if she gives you the “I see you as a friend” deal then you need to tell her that you “can’t just be friends with her, but if she ever changes her mind give you a call.” And then DISAPPEAR. Don’t call her, don’t text, no happy birthday/merry Christmas, no liking her posts or watching stories, you need to make her feel life without you. If you keep being there for her she will keep treating you the way she does. Do not reach out to her ever again, PERIOD, let her reach out to you from now on (most guys don’t do this because they think “oh I havent talked to her in X days/weeks/months I have to do something to win this girl over.” This is the opposite of the truth. You need to do nothing and make her curious and wonder about you to where she reaches out).
Now IF (I say if because you might have done irreparable damage at this point) she reaches out, you need to assume she’s doing so because she wants to see you (remember you’re a catch and you’re awesome), and you need to set up a date immediately, don’t engage in chit chat, the phone is for setting up dates. If she declines, tell her “ok well I’m busy and have to go, give me a call if you change your mind.” You will do this only twice. If she rejects you twice, then all future times she reaches out it has to be her idea to see you. And each time keep all conversations short and make sure you’re the one ending them because you’re too busy for her.
In the meantime, start dating other girls. A lot of other girls. This will help you to move on, improve your game, realize that there are plenty of girls better than Mia that are into you, and might even make Mia a little jealous if she sees you with these other girls. Finally you have to let this girl come to you because right now you’re her available buddy, which you don’t want to be.
And if you didn’t have time to read all this, then you deserve to keep fucking up and suffering with Mia.