I agree with this. I learned to start getting my work done a little on Thursday and Friday that way I haven’t screwed myself over come Sunday and can enjoy the day without the worry of Monday.
Which deep down we all know is what you’re “supposed to do.”
Ben Affleck : “Michael, wouldn’t it be easier and make MORE sense to train astronauts to drill a hole than it it would be to train oil riggers to be astronauts???”
If you feel that your girl is pulling away from you, don’t fall into the illusion of action (oh I’ve gotta do something!) and start chasing. Don’t chase.
Instead pull away yourself by filling your time being busy with work projects, working out, family, etc. If she really likes you she’ll notice you’ve backed away a bit and have been working on yourself and she’ll hit you up.
Hey we’ve all been there, and like CMV said there are people who’ve done far crazier things after a breakup.
What you do now is what I and many others here have said, you move on by making yourself busy. Some would say you should go out, party, drink and hook up, but i think that’s only a temporary fix and a better solution is for you to focus on improving yourself with the goal in mind to become the best version of you as possible. Whether this means getting extremely fit, going for that promotion or better job, reading more, traveling, etc. this is what you should do because it’ll accomplish two things 1. You’ll “reset” your mind back to normal because you’re going to be too busy to think about him. 2. You’re going to be a far more interesting person and better version of yourself, and that’ll end up attracting better men into your life.
Uhhh, I think you missed a lot of what I said and are cherry picking.
He left you because you were a rebound and he wasn’t over his ex fully. That doesn’t mean he didn’t care about you or mean the nice things that he said and did for you. The thing with being someone’s rebound is you have to recognize these people can come and go at any minute. However you didn’t really handle the dumping too well (by reaching out to his new girl) so in a way you kind of forced his hand and had him react the way that he did, by deleting you.
Does he suck for what he did? Sure. But that’s way too easy of a narrative and immature to place all the blame on him. If you don’t walk away from this and can objectively take some responsibility for your actions and the mistakes that you made as well, then you’re doomed to make more in the future. Like I said, take this as a learning lesson. Next time a guy starts acting flakey and says he’s going to see someone else, don’t give into your crazy, just move on. Take the higher road. Make him feel like the idiot for leaving you, instead of coming off as his crazy ex that he’s glad he dumped.
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I’m actually not kidding. Very last option, absolutely, but maybe she’ll learn not to ghost and be a pos.
Pullover dude: call the cops if she doesn’t give it back.
Do you not buy your own plane tickets?
How can you decide to not go through with your flight and just decide to go home, after days and months of planning??? This just confuses me.
I agree with this. I learned to start getting my work done a little on Thursday and Friday that way I haven’t screwed myself over come Sunday and can enjoy the day without the worry of Monday.
Which deep down we all know is what you’re “supposed to do.”
“Hobart, Indianapolis”…
Agreed. He should have alarm bells going off in his head that she was willing to fuck him for so cheap.
GET TESTED DUDE!!
That Trout hat reminds me of the hat Smalls wore that Benny told him to burn.
I want to be friends with your dad.
Ben Affleck : “Michael, wouldn’t it be easier and make MORE sense to train astronauts to drill a hole than it it would be to train oil riggers to be astronauts???”
Michael Bay: “… Shut the fuck up”
Read the title and immediately thought to myself “actually, I wouldn’t be surprised if Duda sits to piss anyway.”
This called for making plans in advance, which Duda doesn’t do.
Oddly enough I’m in medical sales as well… This stuff really has real world applications.
If you feel that your girl is pulling away from you, don’t fall into the illusion of action (oh I’ve gotta do something!) and start chasing. Don’t chase.
Instead pull away yourself by filling your time being busy with work projects, working out, family, etc. If she really likes you she’ll notice you’ve backed away a bit and have been working on yourself and she’ll hit you up.
This is what I’ve been saying. Don’t chase people, focus on yourself and you’ll attract the best people.
The fear of loss comes from a place of insecurity and neediness.
^brave new world reference going right over the downvoters’ heads.
Alphas wear gray, Betas wear mulberry, Gammas wear green, Deltas khaki, and Epsilons in black.
Great Troy reference.
Hey we’ve all been there, and like CMV said there are people who’ve done far crazier things after a breakup.
What you do now is what I and many others here have said, you move on by making yourself busy. Some would say you should go out, party, drink and hook up, but i think that’s only a temporary fix and a better solution is for you to focus on improving yourself with the goal in mind to become the best version of you as possible. Whether this means getting extremely fit, going for that promotion or better job, reading more, traveling, etc. this is what you should do because it’ll accomplish two things 1. You’ll “reset” your mind back to normal because you’re going to be too busy to think about him. 2. You’re going to be a far more interesting person and better version of yourself, and that’ll end up attracting better men into your life.
It’s ok if you want to dress like a woman. We all support you and are happy for you.
Uhhh, I think you missed a lot of what I said and are cherry picking.
He left you because you were a rebound and he wasn’t over his ex fully. That doesn’t mean he didn’t care about you or mean the nice things that he said and did for you. The thing with being someone’s rebound is you have to recognize these people can come and go at any minute. However you didn’t really handle the dumping too well (by reaching out to his new girl) so in a way you kind of forced his hand and had him react the way that he did, by deleting you.
Does he suck for what he did? Sure. But that’s way too easy of a narrative and immature to place all the blame on him. If you don’t walk away from this and can objectively take some responsibility for your actions and the mistakes that you made as well, then you’re doomed to make more in the future. Like I said, take this as a learning lesson. Next time a guy starts acting flakey and says he’s going to see someone else, don’t give into your crazy, just move on. Take the higher road. Make him feel like the idiot for leaving you, instead of coming off as his crazy ex that he’s glad he dumped.