If you read her submission you’d see that she already said she’s not doing that. She should however be able to have the conversation with her boyfriend. If you have to censor yourself with your significant other, what’s the point?
Fully agree. I lost my virginity fairly young and it was about 5 years later I had my first orgasm. I just always felt like I was missing something and this is the best advice I’ve ever gotten. No pressure, on your own time and in your own space, get yourself there. Toys, shower heads, whatever. Get good at it yourself and you’ll be able to guide the guy toward what you like. You deserve to have earth shattering sex, I promise it’s worth the personal investment. Also, I always have felt like relationship sex is way better than hook up sex. It helps me when I know the person I’m sleeping with actually cares about me and also knows what I like and don’t like as well as he knows the back of his hand.
At least you can tell the difference. I’m one of the younger people at my job and everyone thinks that high schoolers are millennials and then they make weird comments at me asking if my friends and I eat tide pods? Because I’m 25? It’s annoying at best. Apparently they don’t realize that being in their 30s they are *also* millennials.
I was told once that getting back with your ex is like reheating McDonald’s in the microwave. Can’t seem to get that thought out of my head. Exes are exes for good reason.
Honestly yes. I’ve always been someone who’s waited a while out of nerves that a guy wouldn’t respect me if I slept with him too early. The one time I decided not to make a big deal out of it and was ready on a 3rd date, the guy told me he couldn’t take me seriously anymore and I never heard from him again.
Don’t get the dog till you’re financially secure. They are expensive beyond expensive. I thought I knew what I was getting into with my dog and wayyy underestimated it.
Or also something like little like one of my exes and I started dating pretty close to Christmas and he used to always comment on my fuzzy socks so I got him a pair and put them in a $1 bag from target with a bow. He thought it was awesome and it was simple and thoughtful. Nbd!
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. Some people can make you feel more in a month than others have made you feel in years. The short timeline doesn’t invalidate her feelings. To the girl who wrote in – I’m sorry. That guy really fucking sucks. I’ve been in your shoes, and I promise you that you don’t deserve who is capable of treating you with such disregard. His issues are personal to him and have nothing to do with you, no matter what he said to you.
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Honestly, yeah. maybe just a little reassurance is all she needs.
If you read her submission you’d see that she already said she’s not doing that. She should however be able to have the conversation with her boyfriend. If you have to censor yourself with your significant other, what’s the point?
Fully agree. I lost my virginity fairly young and it was about 5 years later I had my first orgasm. I just always felt like I was missing something and this is the best advice I’ve ever gotten. No pressure, on your own time and in your own space, get yourself there. Toys, shower heads, whatever. Get good at it yourself and you’ll be able to guide the guy toward what you like. You deserve to have earth shattering sex, I promise it’s worth the personal investment. Also, I always have felt like relationship sex is way better than hook up sex. It helps me when I know the person I’m sleeping with actually cares about me and also knows what I like and don’t like as well as he knows the back of his hand.
I had a really weird experience like that from Tylenol PM once. Totally freaked me out. Never took it again. I feel you, sorry that happened.
At least you can tell the difference. I’m one of the younger people at my job and everyone thinks that high schoolers are millennials and then they make weird comments at me asking if my friends and I eat tide pods? Because I’m 25? It’s annoying at best. Apparently they don’t realize that being in their 30s they are *also* millennials.
I was told once that getting back with your ex is like reheating McDonald’s in the microwave. Can’t seem to get that thought out of my head. Exes are exes for good reason.
My mom always referred to dogs as “children that never grow up.” One of the many things she was too right about.
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Honestly yes. I’ve always been someone who’s waited a while out of nerves that a guy wouldn’t respect me if I slept with him too early. The one time I decided not to make a big deal out of it and was ready on a 3rd date, the guy told me he couldn’t take me seriously anymore and I never heard from him again.
I think the poster was stating about being single/no family in the area as explaining a lack of support, not going to happy hours.
Don’t get the dog till you’re financially secure. They are expensive beyond expensive. I thought I knew what I was getting into with my dog and wayyy underestimated it.
Fully agree with this take.
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Sup from South Florida, Nick!
Or also something like little like one of my exes and I started dating pretty close to Christmas and he used to always comment on my fuzzy socks so I got him a pair and put them in a $1 bag from target with a bow. He thought it was awesome and it was simple and thoughtful. Nbd!
This article is awesome and after some recent posts, definitely needed. I also need to toss you a “sup” after that 4th paragraph. Damn.
This was the best response here, IMO.
I could get on board with this
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. Some people can make you feel more in a month than others have made you feel in years. The short timeline doesn’t invalidate her feelings. To the girl who wrote in – I’m sorry. That guy really fucking sucks. I’ve been in your shoes, and I promise you that you don’t deserve who is capable of treating you with such disregard. His issues are personal to him and have nothing to do with you, no matter what he said to you.