Here’s my take on lap dances from strippers at a bachelor party. I’m not the type to tell a bf (or hypothetical fiancé) what he can and can’t do. I am, however, all about about the guy and the girl having equally good times and experiences.

What is the equivalent for the bachelorette if the bachelor goes out with his buddies for lap dances at a strip club? Does she go out to a club with her friends and get lap dances from a guys? Chances are most don’t. Even if she did, the guy performing the lap dance is 9/10 gay, and the very act itself is usually viewed as funny or silly.

In theory I’d much rather give a lap dance than receive one if I ever decide to go slut it up for my Bachelorette weekend. Personally, I think giving one is way more erotic, empowering, and self-indulging than receiving one from a male stripper– and probably much more similar to the sensations or motives that the bachelor has while going through his supposed rite of passage on his bachelor weekend.

Bottom line bachelors: have your rowdy shit-show of a weekend, but just know that us bachelorettes are having our “fun” too. *wink wink*

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