Man_in_the_Arena

Member Since 05/05/2018

  • Man_in_the_Arena 6 years ago on Mailbag: Beginner's Advice To Getting In Shape, Having An Exclusive But Casual Sexual Partner, And STD Shaming

    Workout guy – Set quantifiable goals that are obtainable and adjust as you progress (# of miles / day; # of workouts / week).
    When to end a relationship gal – Your submission reads like you already know the answer; you have to be 100% rowing in the same direction re: kids / no kids. Eventually he or you will resent the other for differing opinions and life aspirations.

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  • Man_in_the_Arena 6 years ago on This Weekend In Fun: June 8

    My wife turned 29 yesterday so I’m throwing her a surprise bday party by the pool on Saturday (shhh don’t tell her). Grilling burgers and dogs on the Weber; there will be watermelon, ice cream, and cold beer. Have fun everyone.

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  • Man_in_the_Arena 6 years ago on How To Know If You Have An Adult Bedroom

    The next progression to the laundry hamper is a laundry chute. The house we bought had one in the master bath to the basement and it’s a game changer. Outta sight, outta mind… (until Sunday when you are in the basement all day cleaning clothes).

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  • Man_in_the_Arena 6 years ago on How Millennials Can Make Up The Ground We Lost During The Recession

    I agree with Desk Jockey as well. It’s all about balancing needs and wants, something I feel our generation ignores bc of the need for instant gratification.

    The one powerful thing we have that the older generations do not have is time – a powerful tool when trying to accumulate wealth in the long run. That said, you have to pay yourself first and start as early as possible… meaning: 1. Contribute as much as you can to your retirement / 401k (if offered), up to your company’s matching rate… aka free money (if offered); 2. Additionally set aside a portion of each paycheck to additional savings (if possible); 3. Pay down expensive debt in a reasonable manner, chipping away at the principal on a scheduled amortization plan. You will learn to live off of a smaller “discretionary paycheck” but will also better your personal balance sheet.

    After you address these three items, then you budget in your “lifestyle” choices (rent for a luxury apartment vs. buying a smaller starter home to build equity; shopping at Kroger vs. Whole Foods; ordering butter/jelly and toast vs. avacado toast; etc etc etc.).

    I rant but it’s true (in my opinion) – we have to be self reliant and be responsible for our decisions.

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  • Man_in_the_Arena 6 years ago on This Weekend In Fun: May 4

    Friday night staycation with the wife – we live in ATL but had a free Marriott night that expires soon so booked a hotel next to the Braves ball park, caught the game (lost unfortunately – Star Wars night… fun time none-the-less) and heading back tomorrow morning to host a Cinco de Derby party in the afternoon / evening.

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