I use to make fun of the Carhartt jackets. Then I picked up one at tractor supply a few years back, and if it’s not my favorite jacket I’ve ever owned.
I made it last Saturday, where the chiefs game forced me to get inappropriately drunk at 4 in afternoon in a dive bar. So it’s really the Chiefs fault, I’m not sober this January.
I wouldn’t suggest clubs or bar either. When I said clubs before I didn’t mean dance clubs I meant like Meetup groups. If the guy likes animals I would tell him to volunteer at the shelter, he should be joining a bunch of coed groups (beer league sports, postgrad networking groups…etc.). Once again there is a long explanation here but this is what works best for most guys.
There is a really long answer here but I’ll give you the short version. It’s hard to show personality on an app, which means for the most part the decisions to swipe or not are being made completely based off of looks. Women are much more selective on a looks scale about who is hot then men are, which is fine because women give less of a shit about looks then they do about other things (personality, humor, kindness… etc). But if you can’t show women those other aspects of you then you going to find alot less women who want to hangout with you in comparison to what you would get in a normal interaction. Look I’m not saying your friend won’t get matches on there, I’m just saying he’ll probably be more excited about the women he meet through normal life means like clubs/groups and other shit.
I have better luck on tinder then I do on bumble. But honestly for 80% of guys dating apps aren’t the move , not that you shouldn’t be on them just don’t expect good shit from them.
Here is my list, in real order:
1. More content directed at engaging the community. I love the content here but what I really love is just hanging out and talking in the comment section. Things like”This weekend in fun”, “What’s for dinner” and “Morning coffee thoughts”; gave us the option to really talk about part of our lives.
2. Fix the app, I know you guys outsourced this but I would love to be able to comment in the app again.
3. Anything you can do to help people organize meetups. Like I said I love the community here it’s what keeps me coming back. Anything you guys can to turn online interaction to ones IRL would help.
4. Keep doing what you are doing. This site is awesome.
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Did we do something to piss you guys off?
I will throw in a mousepad if one of you guys follows up with this.
So happy this is back.
You went somewhere?
Holy crap, some of you need to learn how to get to the point.
Going to a co-workers 50 birthday party sober, because I’m still trying to get over a cold… Pray for me.
I use to make fun of the Carhartt jackets. Then I picked up one at tractor supply a few years back, and if it’s not my favorite jacket I’ve ever owned.
It had been years since I’d been there, but that place is sweet.
I made it last Saturday, where the chiefs game forced me to get inappropriately drunk at 4 in afternoon in a dive bar. So it’s really the Chiefs fault, I’m not sober this January.
I will once I stop dieing from this cold
Sounds like we need to do a happy hour soon.
Would much rather go kick it with propane royalty then actually royalty.
I wouldn’t suggest clubs or bar either. When I said clubs before I didn’t mean dance clubs I meant like Meetup groups. If the guy likes animals I would tell him to volunteer at the shelter, he should be joining a bunch of coed groups (beer league sports, postgrad networking groups…etc.). Once again there is a long explanation here but this is what works best for most guys.
There is a really long answer here but I’ll give you the short version. It’s hard to show personality on an app, which means for the most part the decisions to swipe or not are being made completely based off of looks. Women are much more selective on a looks scale about who is hot then men are, which is fine because women give less of a shit about looks then they do about other things (personality, humor, kindness… etc). But if you can’t show women those other aspects of you then you going to find alot less women who want to hangout with you in comparison to what you would get in a normal interaction. Look I’m not saying your friend won’t get matches on there, I’m just saying he’ll probably be more excited about the women he meet through normal life means like clubs/groups and other shit.
I have better luck on tinder then I do on bumble. But honestly for 80% of guys dating apps aren’t the move , not that you shouldn’t be on them just don’t expect good shit from them.
Since everyone in family lives well into there 90s I’m good with being a old parent.
God bless you Crick.
I can not, but I’m also on Android so that may be part of the problem.
Agreed, I always feel like you guys under value your fiction. That some of my favorite content on any grandex site.
Here is my list, in real order:
1. More content directed at engaging the community. I love the content here but what I really love is just hanging out and talking in the comment section. Things like”This weekend in fun”, “What’s for dinner” and “Morning coffee thoughts”; gave us the option to really talk about part of our lives.
2. Fix the app, I know you guys outsourced this but I would love to be able to comment in the app again.
3. Anything you can do to help people organize meetups. Like I said I love the community here it’s what keeps me coming back. Anything you guys can to turn online interaction to ones IRL would help.
4. Keep doing what you are doing. This site is awesome.