I may be in the minority, but I disagree with only moving in with a significant other when you’re ready for marriage. Of course this isn’t a blanket statement and all relationships are different, but I personally can’t fathom wanting to marry someone if I don’t know what it’s like to live with them. What if you two have totally incompatible living styles but don’t find out until years into a relationship? That’s wasted time. And the “love conquers all” adage is total bullshit when it comes to this. I’d rather know whether I can live with someone relatively early into a relationship rather than much later.
I disagree with this, especially if one party had much more pre-marriage wealth than the other. You’re not expecting the marriage to fail, but shit happens and it’s sort of an insurance policy.
Sounds like emotional cheating to me. If you’re truly committed and happy with someone, all your needs are being met and you don’t seek them out elsewhere. Otherwise, there are issues with the relationship. And of course, as our generation is wont to do, we don’t take the hard, but right way by communicating with our partner. Instead, we take the easy way out with this “cushioning” stuff. Those relationships are already doomed.
A couple of years ago, I was having plain toast with avocado and two hard boiled eggs for breakfast every day. Did this for six months until I got a blood test, which showed that my triglyceride levels were through the roof. When I told my doctor about my breakfasts, she nearly shat herself and told me that if I kept it up, my liver and gallbladder would become massive due to all the bile secretion to help deal with the excess fat.
Stopped eating eating said breakfasts and all went back to normal.
Moral of the story: yes there can be such a thing as too much healthy fat.
The Richmond and Sunset districts are great and totally worth the money. They’re not as happening as the Marina or North Beach, but much cheaper and you’re a 15 minute Uber ride away.
In reality, you’re going to spend more money with a girlfriend anyway because you can’t sit around in PJs and watch Netflix 24/7 and need to actually go do stuff. And doing stuff costs money.
In all honesty, the whole concept of marrying for love is a totally new concept that’s only a few hundred years old at most and completely unique to humans.
Love is honestly just the product of a bunch of chemical releases in our brain that cause us to get addicted to a certain person. It’s all pretty much bullshit.
That said, it is pretty nice to have a person that you can consistently get laid with on a regular basis.
There’s no way she breaks up with Todd. She’ll never find someone else who not only handles all her shit, but also pays for her retail therapy the day she quits her job after a day.
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Cazzie is a Millenial-as-Hell name.
I may be in the minority, but I disagree with only moving in with a significant other when you’re ready for marriage. Of course this isn’t a blanket statement and all relationships are different, but I personally can’t fathom wanting to marry someone if I don’t know what it’s like to live with them. What if you two have totally incompatible living styles but don’t find out until years into a relationship? That’s wasted time. And the “love conquers all” adage is total bullshit when it comes to this. I’d rather know whether I can live with someone relatively early into a relationship rather than much later.
I disagree with this, especially if one party had much more pre-marriage wealth than the other. You’re not expecting the marriage to fail, but shit happens and it’s sort of an insurance policy.
Same, but Coors Light instead.
And then I’ll chase it with a Pliny.
Sounds like emotional cheating to me. If you’re truly committed and happy with someone, all your needs are being met and you don’t seek them out elsewhere. Otherwise, there are issues with the relationship. And of course, as our generation is wont to do, we don’t take the hard, but right way by communicating with our partner. Instead, we take the easy way out with this “cushioning” stuff. Those relationships are already doomed.
Yeah but I wasn’t the obese tub o’lard you’d think I was if you saw my triglyceride levels.
A couple of years ago, I was having plain toast with avocado and two hard boiled eggs for breakfast every day. Did this for six months until I got a blood test, which showed that my triglyceride levels were through the roof. When I told my doctor about my breakfasts, she nearly shat herself and told me that if I kept it up, my liver and gallbladder would become massive due to all the bile secretion to help deal with the excess fat.
Stopped eating eating said breakfasts and all went back to normal.
Moral of the story: yes there can be such a thing as too much healthy fat.
My bad fam. Busy season will do that to you. ~3 weeks left!
Maybe you should pop open an actual book on the subject and not go by what you get from fictional movies.
But given that you have yet to get an actual mattress, I’m sure it’s not at the top of your priorities list.
Not much to add on my behalf, just wanted to say thank you for your service, both during active deployment and after.
The Richmond and Sunset districts are great and totally worth the money. They’re not as happening as the Marina or North Beach, but much cheaper and you’re a 15 minute Uber ride away.
Garlic fries and chicken tenders at AT&T Park.
In an ideal world, the second is much worse.
In reality, you’re going to spend more money with a girlfriend anyway because you can’t sit around in PJs and watch Netflix 24/7 and need to actually go do stuff. And doing stuff costs money.
Get TurboTax or H&R Block. Unless you itemize, and I assume you don’t, they’re free to use and super simple.
Jeez it was a facetious comment. Didn’t mean to strike a nerve.
It’s also bothersome that you’re a teacher and yet you don’t know how to properly use (or in this case, not use) an apostrophe.
Be honest: you’re just really bitter about being single.
If you had a boyfriend to call you “babe,” you’d have no problem with it.
Ok I stand corrected – most animals don’t mate for life.
In all honesty, the whole concept of marrying for love is a totally new concept that’s only a few hundred years old at most and completely unique to humans.
Love is honestly just the product of a bunch of chemical releases in our brain that cause us to get addicted to a certain person. It’s all pretty much bullshit.
That said, it is pretty nice to have a person that you can consistently get laid with on a regular basis.
There’s no way she breaks up with Todd. She’ll never find someone else who not only handles all her shit, but also pays for her retail therapy the day she quits her job after a day.