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The mind of a twenty-something single male is depraved. It is wild and unforgiving. It is filthy, ever-wandering, and always, always looking out for a chance to score.
Whether it’s drugs, sex, booze, food…it really doesn’t matter. The mind of, let’s say… a twenty-four-year-old single male is a disgusting, wretched place that a mother would be astounded by. I don’t know about the rest of the male population, but I myself am always looking out for number one, and if you don’t have something that I want or is going to directly benefit me in some way, chances are very good that I’ll fly the coop and go somewhere else where my odds aren’t so stacked against me.
I don’t care who you are, what political party you support, or how you think men and women should act or are perceived in 2016. If you are male, and you frequent bars, restaurants, parties, or anywhere else where you might meet a stranger of the female variety, you’re asking yourself one solitary question every time you meet a woman.
One question lays dormant inside the mind. Every single man – whether they are a bachelor, in a committed relationship, engaged, or married – has a voice inside their head asking one question over and over and over like a broken record – does this girl, who I’ve only just met, want to fuck me?
It’s completely natural. I don’t know much, but I know that after I meet a girl there is one constant, and it is the question of whether or not the girl who I’ve just had a conversation with wants to have sex with me.
Is it the same for women? I don’t think so. Ladies love having male friends who aren’t thinking that way. But at the core of every woman who calls a male their friend, they know, beyond a shadow of doubt, that if given the opportunity, that “friend” will have sex with them. Any male with a girl whom he calls a friend has thought about sex with her. He’s played out a scenario where he can get out of that friend zone and into those pants.
This is an absolute truth. I’m sure it will be disputed by some who I’ve met in my twenty-five years of life who truly believe that some of their guy friends really just want a sounding board. No, no, of course not “Alyssa,” “Jade,” or “Samantha.” They would never think about leaving that friend-zone, unbuttoning your one hundred and fifty dollar Zara jeans and finally getting inside of you. That would be crazy, according to women, well, everywhere.
So does she want to do the deed with you?
It’s never an easy question to answer. Are you the type to make the first move? Or are you content to sit somewhere and wait this thing out, biding your time and waiting for her to notice you? Because both strategies can work, but you need to know beforehand what kind of person the girl you’re going after is.
Is she shy? Are you shy? Do you enjoy banal conversation about where you work and what television shows you watch? Or would you rather discuss politics and risk offending her or someone else within earshot?
These questions, and the most important one (of whether or not she wants to fuck you) is not one that I can answer. Most of the time, you won’t know if she wants you to ask her to “come home” until you know.
I don’t claim to know the inner workings of the female brain. But I know one thing for sure; upon meeting a new woman, every man asks themselves some version of the same. exact. question: would that girl have sex with me? .
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jduda@grandex.co
I hope so
For $1000-$5000/ day she’d be a fool to say no
Maybe it’s different with the single 26 year old male’s mind, but it’s not so much “would they fuck me” as it is “could I fuck them”
I like to think that the answer is yes…it helps me sleep at night.
Accurate.
“But I know one thing for sure; upon meeting a new woman, Johnny D asks himself some version of the same. exact. question: would that girl let me raw dog it?”
“Would she be like a dragon in bed?”
To me, it seems that we ladies are more hypersensitive when it comes to “appearances,” and thus we don’t pull a Corinne every single time we want to hook up with someone. From personal experience, if I want to take someone home, I’d be more subtle (cute outfit, off-hand comment, etc.) before knocking a guy over the head with “come home with me” stuff.
Sometimes we’re too clueless to catch the hints
Most of the time*
All of the time
Can confirm as I’ve been flat out told I missed them.
This was an ongoing joke in college. Finally I told a friend to inform me when a girl was flirting back.
I think as dudes we need to stop using this excuse, be a little more observant and you’ll notice the signs. Or don’t, it’s your package.
What do you know, you’re drunk.
thats what i do, i drink and i know things
Probably not
For me at least, I’m more likely to want to if there’s a question of if it’ll happen. The thrill of not knowing how the night will proceed is the best.
Wanna get sushi and have below average sex for 2 minutes tonight?
What are you guys gonna do for the other minute and a half?
I thought that was what the sushi was for…
Act like they all want to, that way you don’t miss it when one does.
“Swing hard in case you hit it”
I’ve never thought that girls could decide if they’d ever bang you, within a minute of meeting you. I’m so obvious about women.
Haven’t read the article yet but I know the answer is a definite no
Johnny also contributes to Men’s Health for “style” I recently just found out. Needless to say, his reputation precedes him.