What you should say: “I’m not interested in being just friends. If you ever change your mind, give me a call, but I’m not waiting.”
And then this part is key: you move on. You don’t call, text, like, anything. Pretty much remove yourself from her life.
Do this and I PROMISE one of two things will happen. 1. She’ll become curious and miss you and her feelings will grow and she’ll reach out. 2. You’ll never hear from her again- which is better than being in the pain you’re in now.
The problem arises when people hang around after being rejected or not even asking the other person out at all, and just become creepy desperate orbiters.
Being able to demonstrate that you’re interested, but willing to move on shows you have value. Good job Dave.
This dude needs to chill because he’s literally talking her out of liking him.
“Should he ask if theyre exclusive?” No leave that up to her when the time comes. If he keeps his mouth shut and doesn’t say weird shit and just keeps setting up dates, she’ll ask him to be her boyfriend eventually.
“Should he be seeing other girls?” He’s not exclusive, and having other options will make him less clingy and more relaxed with Kelsey.
Tldr; sometimes the best thing to do is say nothing at all and these things will work themselves out.
I know full well this is polarizing on this site, some say they hate it while others say it’s a staple, but the sports coat and jeans is the good in-between of suit and just the button up and jean look. I stand by saying it’s a staple and a nice step up from what most people are doing nowadays.
Now, Duda I think you are way over thinking this, or maybe you don’t actually care about half the shit you write about but are just churning out content for the sake of it, which is what I suspect. Just tell people you were at a theater or something else bougie, they’re the ones dressed like scrubs, not you. Just give less of a fuck what others think, if they talk shit they’re just projecting their own insecurities.
Yeah not really sure why all the negativity with being single at a wedding is coming from lately when everyone at weddings are looking to hook up. Just stay loose and throw out a fun vibe.
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What you should say: “I’m not interested in being just friends. If you ever change your mind, give me a call, but I’m not waiting.”
And then this part is key: you move on. You don’t call, text, like, anything. Pretty much remove yourself from her life.
Do this and I PROMISE one of two things will happen. 1. She’ll become curious and miss you and her feelings will grow and she’ll reach out. 2. You’ll never hear from her again- which is better than being in the pain you’re in now.
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Yep, getting too excited too early on almost guarantees rejection everytime.
You backed off and then came back later.
The problem arises when people hang around after being rejected or not even asking the other person out at all, and just become creepy desperate orbiters.
Being able to demonstrate that you’re interested, but willing to move on shows you have value. Good job Dave.
This dude needs to chill because he’s literally talking her out of liking him.
“Should he ask if theyre exclusive?” No leave that up to her when the time comes. If he keeps his mouth shut and doesn’t say weird shit and just keeps setting up dates, she’ll ask him to be her boyfriend eventually.
“Should he be seeing other girls?” He’s not exclusive, and having other options will make him less clingy and more relaxed with Kelsey.
Tldr; sometimes the best thing to do is say nothing at all and these things will work themselves out.
Or that would make him look very insecure…
Lunch dates are what friends do. You’re asking to get friendzoned.
I’ve always found alcohol to be a great ice breaker in these situations.
It’s always interesting to see exes and past flings still watching all your insta and snap stories. Every. Single. One.
Yeah… He was fine at first but he really fucked himself over in the end. Honestly, in the long run he should’ve just sucked it up and went.
No shake shack?
Who honestly gives a fuck about what teenagers say or think? They’re mostly idiots.
Reporter: “why do you rob banks?”
Will Sutton: “I rob banks because that’s where the money is.”
Think about it.
Mike should’ve cut his losses and tossed that girls number long ago, especially with her ex showing up instead of him hovering. Very pathetic.
I know full well this is polarizing on this site, some say they hate it while others say it’s a staple, but the sports coat and jeans is the good in-between of suit and just the button up and jean look. I stand by saying it’s a staple and a nice step up from what most people are doing nowadays.
Now, Duda I think you are way over thinking this, or maybe you don’t actually care about half the shit you write about but are just churning out content for the sake of it, which is what I suspect. Just tell people you were at a theater or something else bougie, they’re the ones dressed like scrubs, not you. Just give less of a fuck what others think, if they talk shit they’re just projecting their own insecurities.
You kinda undermined your original post if caring about what others think…
Yeah not really sure why all the negativity with being single at a wedding is coming from lately when everyone at weddings are looking to hook up. Just stay loose and throw out a fun vibe.
You absolutely need to let us know how this plays out.
Arie will finally break up with Becca M when he sees her face on a milk carton.
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