Yeah that’s fair and your choice. Look at how metro dude handled CMV initial rejection because she was thinking of someone else… all I’m saying is you never know what’s going on in her life, but the way you handle yourself could propel you to first place in her mind.
“If you change your mind, give me a call.” And then walk away and never look back and never pursue, they might reach out again down the road.
Sometimes it isn’t you and there might be someone else they’re just more into at the moment in time, but if you cooly do the takeaway and leave the door open, you’ll be surprised what might happen.
Well the sunken place scene is iconic and will be parodied for years to come, and the film itself brings back twilight zone and Hitchcock vibes, which the academy nuts itself over any self referential or throwback material.
Yeah, if there’s no flirting involved yet then it’s probably not going to go well, unless he is very cool with the take away rejection and she gets curious later.
Honestly probably isn’t going to go well since he views her as the “popular” girl and him having little shot (not the best mentality to have to get the girl, dude).
… in both scenarios there was probably something going on with the other dude for awhile when they were still together. Sucks to hear but then fuck them.
All this guy has to do is be chill and hang back, not go too needy and just set up dates when she reaches out, and the likelihood that Jordan fucks up or takes himself out of the equation is high.
The less this guy does at this point the higher his stock will rise.
“letting her dictate the pace at which they move the relationship. A successful, busy woman makes time for you when she damn well pleases.” Nailed it Brian.
I hope the irony of Duda saying his look and jacket is authentic, but not knowing he’s actually wearing a shirt instead of a jacket, isn’t lost on others.
Denim on denim is fine so long as you mix up the color of jacket and jeans- so maybe black or gray denim pants with the blue jacket, thats what I do at least.
Dude, you need to change your entire mindset. Your confidence, your approach, everything. I’m really trying to help and not be a dick.
It’s not too late with Mia if you do what I told you, let her know you want to be more than friends and when she’s says “no” (she will) you then say “ok well i can’t just be friends if you change your mind give me a call,” (always leave the door open and be ok with walking away) and then you cut off all communication (your actions must match your words, back off her entirely, you cannot reach out to her ever again, this is the most important part) and let her think and her feelings brew about you. It could be weeks, months, years or never. But if she ever had anything for you, she will eventually reach out to you, and when she does you set up a real date right away.
She’ll probably date other guys, but most guys are idiots and will fuck up and make mistakes and take themselves out of the equation. Meanwhile you made your interest known, were cool with the rejection and walked away and never looked back, and she’s been wondering where was that guy that I could laugh with and go to gastro pubs and be myself with? She won’t forget dude, trust me. And if she’s does, then at least your suffering is over. This is your best shot, and it all boils down to taking your shot and being man enough to walk away completely from her life- that’s if you want to be with her and not just her friend.
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She is the worst, most insufferable character on New Girl… and it’s her fucking show.
Yeah that’s fair and your choice. Look at how metro dude handled CMV initial rejection because she was thinking of someone else… all I’m saying is you never know what’s going on in her life, but the way you handle yourself could propel you to first place in her mind.
“If you change your mind, give me a call.” And then walk away and never look back and never pursue, they might reach out again down the road.
Sometimes it isn’t you and there might be someone else they’re just more into at the moment in time, but if you cooly do the takeaway and leave the door open, you’ll be surprised what might happen.
Are you assuming Nived’s gender??? How dare you.
Well the sunken place scene is iconic and will be parodied for years to come, and the film itself brings back twilight zone and Hitchcock vibes, which the academy nuts itself over any self referential or throwback material.
Bekah’s game is so fire it’s almost textbook.
Yeah, if there’s no flirting involved yet then it’s probably not going to go well, unless he is very cool with the take away rejection and she gets curious later.
Honestly probably isn’t going to go well since he views her as the “popular” girl and him having little shot (not the best mentality to have to get the girl, dude).
… in both scenarios there was probably something going on with the other dude for awhile when they were still together. Sucks to hear but then fuck them.
Damn… that’s tough to stomach
Arie and her dad may just become bros.
Plenty of attractive women date multiple guys at once… He just needs to do the above.
All this guy has to do is be chill and hang back, not go too needy and just set up dates when she reaches out, and the likelihood that Jordan fucks up or takes himself out of the equation is high.
The less this guy does at this point the higher his stock will rise.
“letting her dictate the pace at which they move the relationship. A successful, busy woman makes time for you when she damn well pleases.” Nailed it Brian.
I hope the irony of Duda saying his look and jacket is authentic, but not knowing he’s actually wearing a shirt instead of a jacket, isn’t lost on others.
1. I know you’re a guy, I’m saying flip the script. “Look at it like this…”
2. Ha
I think he’s wearing a denim western shirt, not a jacket, because the jackets don’t usually run long enough to be able to tuck.
Look at it like this, if a girl said 3 guys cancelled on her this weekend, wouldn’t you kind of be wondering why?…
Dust yourself off, it’s the start of a new week.
Denim on denim is fine so long as you mix up the color of jacket and jeans- so maybe black or gray denim pants with the blue jacket, thats what I do at least.
Maybe a break from alcohol is in order if these life and relationship ruining events are happening.
Dude, you need to change your entire mindset. Your confidence, your approach, everything. I’m really trying to help and not be a dick.
It’s not too late with Mia if you do what I told you, let her know you want to be more than friends and when she’s says “no” (she will) you then say “ok well i can’t just be friends if you change your mind give me a call,” (always leave the door open and be ok with walking away) and then you cut off all communication (your actions must match your words, back off her entirely, you cannot reach out to her ever again, this is the most important part) and let her think and her feelings brew about you. It could be weeks, months, years or never. But if she ever had anything for you, she will eventually reach out to you, and when she does you set up a real date right away.
She’ll probably date other guys, but most guys are idiots and will fuck up and make mistakes and take themselves out of the equation. Meanwhile you made your interest known, were cool with the rejection and walked away and never looked back, and she’s been wondering where was that guy that I could laugh with and go to gastro pubs and be myself with? She won’t forget dude, trust me. And if she’s does, then at least your suffering is over. This is your best shot, and it all boils down to taking your shot and being man enough to walk away completely from her life- that’s if you want to be with her and not just her friend.
Good luck.