A few days ago, I wrote 5 Benefits Of Having A Smart And Successful Wife, and it seemed to resonate well with people. Apparently too many guys out there seem intimidated by smart and successful women, as if their partner’s achievements make their intelligence or accomplishments somehow less important in comparison. It’s pretty pathetic, if you ask me, and it definitely is another sign of the increase in “beta male” acceptance in today’s society. If a whiny boy from Canada can become as rich and popular as Drake has, you know we have a problem.
What I never thought was in question was that guys like sexy, gorgeous girls. Even in my article, in which I talked about how a girl who is beautiful, smart, and fun to hang out with is the holy grail of women, I took “beautiful” as the obvious component. I didn’t think that part needed to be defended. But yet again, my faith in humanity has been knocked down a peg. Ask Men UK decided to write out what they consider The 10 Pitfalls Of Dating A Beautiful Woman and as you can expect from the title, it is ridiculous.
- You’ll worry about other guys trying to sleep with her
- You’ll fight with guys you don’t even know
- You’ll become jealous and possessive
- No one will notice you in her presence
- People will assume that she wants you for your money
- You’ll be easily manipulated
- You’ll have trouble trusting her
- You’ll be insecure
- Her ego could be a problem
- You may stay with her for the wrong reasons
You have got to be shitting me.
Guys, If any one of these ten goes through your head, you should probably go get checked for low T. The only point even marginally acceptable is #2, but honestly, after a certain age you shouldn’t be fighting anymore no matter the circumstances, much less over a girl.
Let me cut through the bullshit and clear this up for you. If your girl is hot, of course other guys are going to want to and every now and then attempt to sleep with her. How do you handle this? You sack up and trust your lady to rebuff his efforts. Trust me, beautiful women learned at a young age how to turn down guys. They’re quite good at it.
If your girl is hot she probably also has a healthy level of confidence. Maybe even a big ego. Good! If you’re going to be this timid, someone needs to wear the pants in the relationship. Insecurity is awful no matter what, and honestly, the girls without the ego are the ones more likely to cheat or be an attention whore.
People might assume she wants you for your money? Assuming you even have any with this attitude, who cares? Fuck them. Your happiness shouldn’t depend on other peoples’ perceptions of you.
As far as becoming jealous or possessive, being easily manipulated, not trusting her, not being noticed in her presence, and staying with her for the wrong reasons, just stop. These are problems with you, buddy, not her level of attractiveness. Grow a pair and get your own house in order.
It’s bad enough that so many guys are afraid enough of smart and successful ladies that my previous article, which should have been common sense, went viral. (Almost entirely by women too, if you need further proof.) Now men are afraid of attractive women too? I’m more afraid what I’m going to stumble upon next.